I agree with genuinefine...a slow approach would be best. Invite yourself, or get him to invite you to a private viewing session and see how things roll. You might be surprised because, I would bet that he will act out his ritual given that it his primary sexual outlet. You might "get caught up" in the video and casually rub yourself through your clothes and signal him that at least that much is ok. The rest....maybe you will tell us a hot story!
I had a bud that I worked out with and one day after working out we had headed to the showers. There were individual stalls but without curtains and I was in one across from his. We turned at the same moment to rinse our backs and were facing each other. I moved a hand to my crotch and he mirrored my move...I will just say....we toweled off and headed to the steam room. He tasted wonderful.
Enjoy, be patient and it will come. If any of you would like to chat get me on yahoo.....eville_1
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I have a friend I've been working on for years. We watch porn, and talk about jerking off. I've jerked off while he watched me, but he won't do it in front of me.
The other day we were on the phone talking about making extra money and he said, "I'll pay you to suck my cock. You'd like that wouldn't you?" Without thinking I said, "I'd do it for free". To which he replied, "Come get it", then he laughed and told me I was a sick perv.
I think he really wants to play but is shy. He has a nice big cock and beautiful big smooth balls. Very suckable. I've seen him naked dozens of times and seen him fuck his girlfriend. He shoots massive loads too.
Wish he'd let me drain him.
The other day we were on the phone talking about making extra money and he said, "I'll pay you to suck my cock. You'd like that wouldn't you?" Without thinking I said, "I'd do it for free". To which he replied, "Come get it", then he laughed and told me I was a sick perv.
I think he really wants to play but is shy. He has a nice big cock and beautiful big smooth balls. Very suckable. I've seen him naked dozens of times and seen him fuck his girlfriend. He shoots massive loads too.
Wish he'd let me drain him.
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Wish he'd let me drain him.
Wish he'd let me drain him.
I have known guys whow have said things like that to me...He will!
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go out drinking and give it a try, if doesnt work blame the booze. if it does work suck him twice and get him to suck you
I just wanna go on record and say, this is a very arousing thread!
Be true to yourself!
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BigKid666 said:
I just wanna go on record and say, this is a very arousing thread!
I just wanna go on record and say, this is a very arousing thread!
Agreed! One of my guaranteed hard on moments is visiting this thread haha
SloStroker you should definitely let us know how that works out for you. Im sure youll end up having a real hot experience soon if you keep trying 
Be careful, OP. Half of the advice here is well meant, the other half is guys expressing their fantasies. Guys who keep bringing up alcohol are giving the worst possible advice. Could it work? It could but it's actually unlikely to do so and could backfire in a big way.
Although alcohol lowers inhibitions, one of the inhibitions that it lowers is that of doing violence to others. If you were to put the moves on 100 straight guys while they were drunk, you'd get a lot more fists than cocks. Even if he did let you blow him, he could get violent after he cums. Plenty of people have gotten killed after the "straight" guy blew his load and had second thoughts that quickly turned violent.
Although alcohol lowers inhibitions, one of the inhibitions that it lowers is that of doing violence to others. If you were to put the moves on 100 straight guys while they were drunk, you'd get a lot more fists than cocks. Even if he did let you blow him, he could get violent after he cums. Plenty of people have gotten killed after the "straight" guy blew his load and had second thoughts that quickly turned violent.
You are right but I believe that inside of any man there is an urge to experiment and there are some guys afraid of their own sexuality.
I too am impressed with the sound advice from Str9tGuy, and can add that it worked pretty much that way for me . The best part is that almost 20 years later I STILL have a special jack-off and suck buddy who is still my friend in all the non-sexual ways he was before. So go slowly, don't force anything, and keep an eye and ear out for any hints in his remarks or body language that may give you insight into his thoughts and feelings about participating in such an act.
Str8tGuy, it's a real treat to read such an insightful and well written response from someone so young, my hat's off to you.
PS: I also agree that this thread is a real turn-on to read, thanks bi_m for opening up to us about your desire.
. The best part is that almost 20 years later I STILL have a special jack-off and suck buddy who is still my friend in all the non-sexual ways he was before. So go slowly, don't force anything, and keep an eye and ear out for any hints in his remarks or body language that may give you insight into his thoughts and feelings about participating in such an act.Str8tGuy, it's a real treat to read such an insightful and well written response from someone so young, my hat's off to you.
PS: I also agree that this thread is a real turn-on to read, thanks bi_m for opening up to us about your desire.
Sometimes it just takes the right moment. My friend and I talk very nasty. He is always talking about jerking off or porn. Many times I call him and he tells me he's jerking off but always says, "Man, I need to cum, I'll call you back". He just won't cross the line with me. I've done all I know to do. Got him tipsy, high, watched porn, jerked off in front of him, showed him naked pics of my wife...everything. He admits to being horny, even shows me the outline of his hard cock in his pants, but no amount of encouragement will get him to take his cock out. I've sat 4 feet from him jerking my cock while he watched and commented on it saying "dang, I need to but a nut too". I tell him to join me and his response is always, "No man, that's gay" or "I'm not playing with my cock with another dude".
Lately, I've been sending him links to she male porn, bisexual porn, and solo jerk off porn. He emailed me back and asked "Are you gay?". I told him I was just a pervert, and if it felt good, I'd do it.
Yesterday he called me and we were talking about porn and he said, "Yeah, you like that gay shit", and I told him it wasn't gay. He said, "if a dude is touching another dude's dick, it's gay". I asked him if he thought it would feel good, and he said "I don't know, you want to play with my cock so I can find out?" I was shocked, but answered as seriously as I can "Yeah man, you have a nice big cock". He laughed and said, "you gotta suck it and swallow caused I'm not fucking your gay ass".
The problem is, in person, he's not that bold. I really think he wants me to suck his cock, and I've told him I would. But he just won't go through with it.
I'm gonna keep on him. I know once he lets me do it he's gonna like it.
Lately, I've been sending him links to she male porn, bisexual porn, and solo jerk off porn. He emailed me back and asked "Are you gay?". I told him I was just a pervert, and if it felt good, I'd do it.
Yesterday he called me and we were talking about porn and he said, "Yeah, you like that gay shit", and I told him it wasn't gay. He said, "if a dude is touching another dude's dick, it's gay". I asked him if he thought it would feel good, and he said "I don't know, you want to play with my cock so I can find out?" I was shocked, but answered as seriously as I can "Yeah man, you have a nice big cock". He laughed and said, "you gotta suck it and swallow caused I'm not fucking your gay ass".
The problem is, in person, he's not that bold. I really think he wants me to suck his cock, and I've told him I would. But he just won't go through with it.
I'm gonna keep on him. I know once he lets me do it he's gonna like it.
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Bangersmilkman has pointed out a few very true points in his post. So to the OP (sorry, I'm on my phone so can't type and check your name!) I'd like to second that post and advise against drink.
You know, for some, drink could be the answer but i honestly feel that it is only a minority that gain a lifelong bond in this scenario with the use of alcohol. You have to remember that people can consume different amounts and those people will feel the effects of the alcohol quicker than some. Drink can distort the truth, it makes people do things that they may not necessarily want to do if they were sober. The post is completely right when it says that you'd get more fists than cocks going down this route.
You need to also consider the consequences of the drunken route. Remember there is a friendship at stake here. If the friend reacts violently or loses his head at the approach, you've lost a friend. There's no idea as to how much the friend will be for or against the idea but the alcohol will only make him lose his rational thinking. If he reacts in a negative way, then he will probably go over the top with his reaction. If you're worried about this getting out to your wider circle of friends, this really isn't the approach to take. I apologize if i sound like I'm lecturing at all, I just feel that the alcohol subject needs more thought.
matman may also be right, that inside any man is the desire to experiment, but as he says, it's the fear that stops them. The fear is the key word here because fear is something in which we all react to differently, not only that, we all arrive at a fearful feeling through different routes. Perhaps I'm going a little deep now but homosexuality can still carry a stigma in society. We are developing but we haven't gotten past this stigma yet. I know people myself that if I told them I could get off on the thought of sucking a cock, they would want to beat me. There's no telling how OP's friend would react in this scenario which is why myself and others agree that you need to be careful and slow in your approach. You can't rush it, there's too much to lose. OP's friend could see homosexual acts as something he just couldn't do. We can't even say he will partake in mutual masturbation, but it's a stepping stone, a small but but it's still one step closer. The friend could be a typical macho male, maybe he can chat about women and get changed in front of the OP but what if he knew OP liked the view? Would he still change in front of him? We can't say.
Finally, biva offers a great insight into what to look out for because he's got the t-shirt! Been there, done that! (Thank you biva for the compliments regarding my initial post!)
I can't tell anybody what to do or say in this situation since I haven't been there myself. I hope nobody minds me seconding the thoughts but I just felt they needed to be addressed.
You know, for some, drink could be the answer but i honestly feel that it is only a minority that gain a lifelong bond in this scenario with the use of alcohol. You have to remember that people can consume different amounts and those people will feel the effects of the alcohol quicker than some. Drink can distort the truth, it makes people do things that they may not necessarily want to do if they were sober. The post is completely right when it says that you'd get more fists than cocks going down this route.
You need to also consider the consequences of the drunken route. Remember there is a friendship at stake here. If the friend reacts violently or loses his head at the approach, you've lost a friend. There's no idea as to how much the friend will be for or against the idea but the alcohol will only make him lose his rational thinking. If he reacts in a negative way, then he will probably go over the top with his reaction. If you're worried about this getting out to your wider circle of friends, this really isn't the approach to take. I apologize if i sound like I'm lecturing at all, I just feel that the alcohol subject needs more thought.
matman may also be right, that inside any man is the desire to experiment, but as he says, it's the fear that stops them. The fear is the key word here because fear is something in which we all react to differently, not only that, we all arrive at a fearful feeling through different routes. Perhaps I'm going a little deep now but homosexuality can still carry a stigma in society. We are developing but we haven't gotten past this stigma yet. I know people myself that if I told them I could get off on the thought of sucking a cock, they would want to beat me. There's no telling how OP's friend would react in this scenario which is why myself and others agree that you need to be careful and slow in your approach. You can't rush it, there's too much to lose. OP's friend could see homosexual acts as something he just couldn't do. We can't even say he will partake in mutual masturbation, but it's a stepping stone, a small but but it's still one step closer. The friend could be a typical macho male, maybe he can chat about women and get changed in front of the OP but what if he knew OP liked the view? Would he still change in front of him? We can't say.
Finally, biva offers a great insight into what to look out for because he's got the t-shirt! Been there, done that! (Thank you biva for the compliments regarding my initial post!)
I can't tell anybody what to do or say in this situation since I haven't been there myself. I hope nobody minds me seconding the thoughts but I just felt they needed to be addressed.
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I have to agree with the guys, particularly Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r, who are saying that the best approach is slow and non-aggressive. If your friend is watching porn, I'd be surprised if he would be offended if you invited him to watch with you. It's not too much of a stretch then to, over time, be jacking buddies, only rubbing your dick through your pants during the vid is obviously a better start than immediately whipping it out. Also, it could be a lot easier to go from jacking each other to a blow job than offering a blow job early on. And you may or may not get to that level. From the sound of things, you could have a lot of fun just with a new jacking buddy, mutual or not.
The other suggestion I would have is that you could try approaching things with some "I have a friend who..." statements, instead of going right to "Would you", "Have you ever", or "Do you want to" kinds of questions. After all, it's not a lie to say that you have friends who do whatever, because a lot of your online friends on this site probably have tried what you're wanting to do. I could imagine saying something like, "I have a friend who invited a neighbor friend over to kick back and watch porn together, and they got so horned up by the vids that they jacked together and then his neighbor sucked him off. Crazy, huh!" The reaction you get from that could be pretty telling, 'cause it could be anything from disgust to a bulge cropping up in his pants.
I have to agree with the guys, particularly Str8Guy_p0rnL0v3r, who are saying that the best approach is slow and non-aggressive. If your friend is watching porn, I'd be surprised if he would be offended if you invited him to watch with you. It's not too much of a stretch then to, over time, be jacking buddies, only rubbing your dick through your pants during the vid is obviously a better start than immediately whipping it out. Also, it could be a lot easier to go from jacking each other to a blow job than offering a blow job early on. And you may or may not get to that level. From the sound of things, you could have a lot of fun just with a new jacking buddy, mutual or not.
The other suggestion I would have is that you could try approaching things with some "I have a friend who..." statements, instead of going right to "Would you", "Have you ever", or "Do you want to" kinds of questions. After all, it's not a lie to say that you have friends who do whatever, because a lot of your online friends on this site probably have tried what you're wanting to do. I could imagine saying something like, "I have a friend who invited a neighbor friend over to kick back and watch porn together, and they got so horned up by the vids that they jacked together and then his neighbor sucked him off. Crazy, huh!" The reaction you get from that could be pretty telling, 'cause it could be anything from disgust to a bulge cropping up in his pants.
I like the friend who approach. I would like to try this with my step-cousin.
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Bumping this to get a progress report. As BigKid said, this is very arousing thread.
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All the ideas of watching porn with your friend so you can blow him are great.
You might have to use parts of each suggestion.
Take your time and plan it out.
Maybe the two of you could watch a porno that you know has male/male contact.Maybe double penetration in the same hole.
You might have to use parts of each suggestion.
Take your time and plan it out.
Maybe the two of you could watch a porno that you know has male/male contact.Maybe double penetration in the same hole.
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