secret -

i have visited this site many times, but only joined today. part of the reason i joined was to possibly chat with anyone more than once. however, there is definitely something very exhilarating, naughty and erotic about a one off with a complete stranger. can i cum while cybering with someone i don't know - yes. can i cum with someone more than once without knowing them - yes. I come to this site to explore, masturbate, and imagine. that is the beauty of anonymity - i can be more of myself than i am in real life because there is no inhibition.

And, naturally, Secret, when I go to shoot you a message, your inbox is full. Story o' my life. LOL

I can imagine all the horny messages in Secret's inbox.

I prefer anonymity, though an extended chat relationship is great. It's the fantasy that interests me. If you don't have a good imagination, it doesn't matter what set of gentalia you have.

I've had great chatting relationships ruined when the person has sent a pic. "Oh, that little noodle is what they are whackin around over there..." And then I can't get back into it And I feel bad for being so superficial, but there ya go.

Hey, I'm no adonis, myself, but I'd rather use my imagination about the equipment on the other end of the connection (unless you know you have a very photogenic genitalia.)

I'm a hypocrite, though, because I'm still thinking about a getting a cam to show off my cock. Everyone else seems to be into the cam thing.

I certainly can see where hot, anonymous cyber sex can be a turn on....no strings, no expectations.....but if I were to have an experience like that, to be purely anonymous (for me) it has to be a one time thing only.

I find it very hot to have one time anonymous cyber, but also enjoy chatting with that same person again and again, just picking up a little bit about them each time. After a while there looks actually dont matter so much because I just find their fantasies and desires totally turn me on.

One time opertunity cyber can be very exciting, but a cyber relationship over an extended time is much more intresting. You have the time to get to know the other person and how to turn them on and what they desire in cyber and how you can fufill that and It can still stay semi anonymous with no strings attached. Cyber sex is the safest and most fun you can have at the keyboard with you pants/panties down.

I, for one, have usually just had the occasional "cum and run" experiences. And ALL of them have been guys. And while it was enjoyable at the time, I still find myself wanting to have a more personal and meaningful cyber session, if anything like that is possible, with a regular "partner". Perhaps having a set day and time of the week that we might both be able to look forward to. Start out with some friendly chat and get to know one another and then, go from there. I have several fantasies that I would LOVE to share with the other members.
As I stated earlier, ALL of my cyber sessions have been with guys. I'd really like to share some of my fantasies with some of the female members on here.
So, while I still enjoy the occasional "cum and run", I think I would more interested in a more personal cyber session.

cyber sex and a cam is over the top