Message Boards
Page: of 4 next >
Does anyone ever feel like they get desensitized by looking at cocks, pussies, asses or tits on here all the time? Like it's no big deal anymore because they are so accessible?
Sometimes, yes, but not that often. But I have lingerie/swimsuit/fashion pics to fall back on if I do.
Mmm, I love jerking off... fucking my greasy, tight, slippery fist until I spurt my gobs of cum...
What a great question, thanks for asking it. I found a few years ago that I was starting to lose interest in visual porn, it was 'same old same old'. So I tried to counteract my loss of interest by watching harder stuff: bukkake, orgy, watersports and so on. The same thing started to happen, until now I've just about lost interest in visual porn altogether.
What [/i]has[i] kept my interest, though, has been pornographic literature, whether it's the old 'Classic Erotica', usually written by Anonymous, or a well-written letter in an adult magazine. The 'pictures in my head' which I get from reading are, for me, better than the pictures on a screen. Like, I suppose, everyone else , I also make up my own 'pictures in my head' by fantasising, and have even contributed a couple of stories to the Literotica website (same username as here if you want to take a look).
I've been intending for some time to ask on here whether others have gone through the same process of getting bored with visual porn while staying interested in written porn, so I'm really glad you've raised this question and hope there are lots of answers.
What [/i]has[i] kept my interest, though, has been pornographic literature, whether it's the old 'Classic Erotica', usually written by Anonymous, or a well-written letter in an adult magazine. The 'pictures in my head' which I get from reading are, for me, better than the pictures on a screen. Like, I suppose, everyone else , I also make up my own 'pictures in my head' by fantasising, and have even contributed a couple of stories to the Literotica website (same username as here if you want to take a look).
I've been intending for some time to ask on here whether others have gone through the same process of getting bored with visual porn while staying interested in written porn, so I'm really glad you've raised this question and hope there are lots of answers.
Hmmm. I guess my interest rises and falls. Sometimes I seem a little jaded, but then I return after a few days and find something that stimulates me and I'm up again. I must admit that when I first started showing myself on cam it was a big thrill. I recall wiping cum off the camera more than once.
I also have a nice supply of downloaded stories to masturbate with. And I've written a couple myself, with a couple more in the works. I know if I'm on the right (write?) track if the story I'm telling starts to stimulate me. Often I end up stripping down during a writing session and stroking myself as I write.
I also have a nice supply of downloaded stories to masturbate with. And I've written a couple myself, with a couple more in the works. I know if I'm on the right (write?) track if the story I'm telling starts to stimulate me. Often I end up stripping down during a writing session and stroking myself as I write.
secretsecret said:
Does anyone ever feel like they get desensitized by looking at cocks, pussies, asses or tits on here all the time? Like it's no big deal anymore because they are so accessible?
Does anyone ever feel like they get desensitized by looking at cocks, pussies, asses or tits on here all the time? Like it's no big deal anymore because they are so accessible?
Gosh no. I have been looking most of my life and still love it. I love looking at women. Breasts, pussies, waist, legs, you name it. even with clothes on, but prefer nude.
I can see women in church and get turned on. No, not burned out for sure.
I will even look at hard cocks, even though I am straight.
and Secret, Show me YOUR tits. All of them.
I find women can become jaded with it after awhile, most women are not as visually oriented as men.
stroke it til it hurts
Not so much. I've found that I go through phases of what get's me excited. Was on a puffy nipple kick for awhile, then it was redheads, then it was unshaven bush, now it happens to be older gals or big nipples. I think we adapt, but I don't know if it's completely possible to be totally desensitized.
No one else is gonna like this, but it's sooo adorable and sexy:
http://www.youshare.com/view.php?file=BIANCA_BALTI1.mov
That accent! Her posing! :love:
http://www.youshare.com/view.php?file=BIANCA_BALTI1.mov
That accent! Her posing! :love:
Mmm, I love jerking off... fucking my greasy, tight, slippery fist until I spurt my gobs of cum...
Posted on 2006-12-21 07:02 AM. Last edited by VicSecret_JO on 2006-12-21 09:18 AM. (1 edits total)
Mmm, I love jerking off... fucking my greasy, tight, slippery fist until I spurt my gobs of cum...
Well I know this has happened to me at times, like some of you have said. It used to be that magazines did it for me, now it needs to be porn. Some times I have watched someone on cam and it hasn't been very interesting for me. Now some of that is if the "show" is boring, but some of it is because there if not hottness, no passion or no connection of some sort between us. So at those times, maybe I have been a bit desensitized to the visual of seeing a cock. But I will say to Justadirtyolman, I am very visual, always have been. So maybe I am the exception to that rule! Lucky me.
secretsecret said:
Well I know this has happened to me at times, like some of you have said. It used to be that magazines did it for me, now it needs to be porn. Some times I have watched someone on cam and it hasn't been very interesting for me. Now some of that is if the "show" is boring, but some of it is because there if not hottness, no passion or no connection of some sort between us. So at those times, maybe I have been a bit desensitized to the visual of seeing a cock. But I will say to Justadirtyolman, I am very visual, always have been. So maybe I am the exception to that rule! Lucky me.
Well I know this has happened to me at times, like some of you have said. It used to be that magazines did it for me, now it needs to be porn. Some times I have watched someone on cam and it hasn't been very interesting for me. Now some of that is if the "show" is boring, but some of it is because there if not hottness, no passion or no connection of some sort between us. So at those times, maybe I have been a bit desensitized to the visual of seeing a cock. But I will say to Justadirtyolman, I am very visual, always have been. So maybe I am the exception to that rule! Lucky me.
I'm starting to believe that women are just as visually interested as men are. It's just that women are more able (bless their souls!) to ignore looks and appreciate the things on the inside.
I just don't think there's any shortage of women who get off on superficialities, just like men.
Mmm, I love jerking off... fucking my greasy, tight, slippery fist until I spurt my gobs of cum...
SecretSecret, There is one cock I see on a regular basis that I could look at forever. It is so perfect it's hard to believe it is attached to a flesh and blood man. Perfectly porportioned no extra veins, no ugly bumps, just a smooth shaft and a head the begs to be sucked. Just thinking about that cock gets me wet and hot. (And no it does not belong to my husband)
a woman who knows how to use her mouth
I’m fairly new here and this is my first reply. I’ve been an avid masturbator for a long time and I think we all go through different phases of enjoying different types of material, call it a graduation and like anything you can probably always have too much of a good thing, like too much chocolate at Easter but the craving comes back. What I find interesting is the journey that this takes you on, I’d say I am straight but I now really enjoy watching guys on webcam although am not interested in out and out gay porn, the exciting part is what next, you stumble across something different and your focus changes to that.
I find that if I look at porn a lot then I get desensitised to it and I need to take a break for a few days. As with other people above, I tend to get a greater satisfaction out of reading erotic stories (I'm actually writing one now...so 'watch this space' so to speak). Sometimes on jackinchat, it's better to have a chat with someone rather than cam or share porn.
I'm going to start camming soon (Feb) when I get back to uni, but i'm going to be careful not to do it too much for two reasons. Firstly, I dont want to get bored of it, and seconly I spent too much time much time masturbating last semester, when I should have been studying, so I need to exercise a bit of self control!
I'm going to start camming soon (Feb) when I get back to uni, but i'm going to be careful not to do it too much for two reasons. Firstly, I dont want to get bored of it, and seconly I spent too much time much time masturbating last semester, when I should have been studying, so I need to exercise a bit of self control!
Very good thread, secretsecret. I have become somewhat desensitized to the commercial porn, but I find that, particularly as I get older, my libido and level of fascination with viewing nudity and activities is INCREASING when it comes to people on line and people with whom I have encounters in real life. I think it is because they are all REAL people in the sense that, the "commercial" type porn is so laden with fake boobs, monster size male genitalia, gallon-gushing cum shots, shaved pubes and the like. I have always preferred "all-natural" people and true, genuine amatear porn, and I think with getting older and gaining more comfort with and accecptance of myself as I am, I tend to have keener interest/appreciation in/of the diversity and uniqueness of each of us.
Page: of 4 next >