This really baffles me. How do guys find jerk off buddies? And no, I AM NOT asking how I can find one myself. I am just wanting to discuss this. But really, how do you guys do it? How do you just approach another guy anywhere and proposed you jerk off together, or each other? Or what about your friends? How does that conversation even get started?

No offense, but I am seriously doubting a lot of these stories I hear on this forum concerning this. And no, I am not being like homophobic or real conservative or anything, I just do not believe this to the extent of how often it is posted on here.



But really, somebody please explain this to me. One I just read was in a gym shower. How does that work? Most likely, you do not know most of the guys at your gym, and the ones you do know are probably just acqaintences. So how do these horny guys just waltz up to each other in the shower and just grab each other or just start jerking off to each other like a creeper? A normal man's reaction, even a homosexual man, would be defensive or just plain weirded out.

I've told the story here on the boards and in the chat many a time...

A friend from high school and I became best friends our freshman year of college when we became roommates in the dorm. We were both taking a semester off and living with our folks again, and started watching porn together. Nothing more than watching for the first few. He'd go home, I'd pound one out, and that was that.

One night, we were watching a really hot girl/girl scene and watched it over and over and over and.... You get the idea. Finally, he said, "Damn. I'm gonna have to beat off when I get home." It surprised me, because, aside from the normal guys joking around, it was a subject that had never come up before. I surprised myself a bit when I said to him, "Why wait? I need to, too. Plus, you don't have anything that I don't see on myself every day or didn't see on you in the dorm last year." We both stood up and started to undress, both a little nervous, each expecting the other to say, "Dude! I was KIDDING!" But, once we were naked, the nerves went away.

And, that was the start of a good year's worth of us jackin together...and more, as time went on.

I find mine on the internet. It IS difficult finding local buddies, but it can be done. There are numerous man to man dating sites,along with AFF(adultfriendfinder), and SLS(swinglifestyle). If you cast enough nets, you will catch fish.

I agree with you, Sir 101. I think most of the stories I read here are nothing more than wishful thinking and wild imaginations.

You nailed it mate! What do these guys think? That someone is gonna walk up and say "Howdy stranger, how about we jerk and suck each other off?!" It is difficult to find a mate, particularly one who is reasonably compatible with you, but as Jack_Meoff55 said, it can be done....but like anything else in life, you only get out of it what you put into it.

craigslist is one place to start.

i have found a few in chat rooms esp the old yahoo chat rooms and several male to male sites and craigslist. never had the nerve to ask any of my buddies. they everyone knows there are alot of horny guys out there that with will anything at least once to get off

I agree that I've never understood the gym stories... I would be far to concerned that someone would report it - also how do you know who is even into it? I also agree that most guys would prob punch you in the face or at the least thing youre a creep.
That being said, my experiences have only been with actual friends. Friends that occasionally drink too much and then watch porn...and then things happen. Craigslist has never worked for me...to many creeps and flakes. Besides, its always interesting to find out what your real buds are packin anyhow.

damn, I need to start looking for someone to play with... lol

I would doubt the gym stories myself. My buddy and I were around 18 when we started watching porn together this would have us both really horny and we would dare each other to do things after watching like take your cock out for 30 seconds and stuff like that. Eventually the dares grew until it was jerk off for 30 seconds. We did this a lot until we would skip the dares, knock on porn and just start jacking. At the end we used to tribute pictures together and everything, now that I think about it that was especially hot. I can still see his throbbing purple head now and he used to cum a lot! It's a pity we don't get the opportunity anymore.

Sites similar (& including) to this. I get offers, don't pursue as such though.

Same bro, Iget offers all the time..havent gone through with it yet

Found a previous married buddy on yahoo personals years ago and most recent bud on CL. Thing about CL is it takes time and you have to be patient. Lots of regulars and creepers out there.

Well I'll tell you that I never had some of the hot adventure I read here. Fact or fiction they are all super hot but I have had some adventures. My first time was at a city park. This guy was standing in the bushes and just pulled out his cock and started jacking. I joined him and we got off. I did several times at this park with different guys that showed up for that exact purpose. I have also jacked in xxx movie theaters with guys watching and me watching them as well as at a nude beach. I have had 2 personal encounters. One was with a guy I met on yahoo and one was with someone I knew who I accidently found jacking off one day. He thought he was busted but instead we decided to meet at his place later and he sucked me off. These stories do happen but I'm afraid just not very often.

Its not easy. I have not been able to find one locally to get together with on a regular basis. But I do occassionally have the chance in bathrooms to watch and be watched stroking.