There are a lot of us on this site, myself included, who are bi, and our wives don't know. I don't like keeping that from my wife, but there's no way she'd understand. Trying to find another guy in my area isn't easy, small town (500) people), no porn theaters in the surrounding area, Ohio sucks in that regard, so I try to chat with like minded guys from this site, on yahoo messenger, and by email. You do what you have to do.

I'm in the same boat my friend 100%. It's tough and frustrating. I love my wife dearly and after 7 year's I still hold her hand and make no bones about her importance in my life and my love for her. But at the same time I'm holding out on her. That at times weigh's heavy on my heart. She is slightly Homophobic. So as a result I cannot disclose my attraction to cock and cum. As well as tit's and pussy oh my!. One friend commented that thoes Bi-sexuals are just greedy lol. Perhapse but no-one is 100% gay or straight...No-one.

I found a suck buddy on squirt.org. We meet once a month or so at his place. He really wants to fuck my ass but so far I have only allowed a prostate massage. We use no names or phone #'s. No one knows.

I suspect I'm in the same boat as a lot more guys than would publicly admit: I jerked off with all my closest friends in junior high / HS, love love love love love fucking my wife as hard and raunchy and as often as I possibly can, but still curious about what other guys are packing and like to show off.

Back in October I was on a biz trip and met a guy on Manhunt for some safe harmless mutual j/o. He got totally carried away praising and worshipping my size in a very gratifying way He offered to suck me but I refused - I've never gone that far and I think at this point in my life, as a married dad, it just isn't something I can risk. If I were 100% guaranteed of safety I'd let a dude go down on me and, maybe, maybe return the favor, but when the risk is destroying your marriage and family, the only 100% guarantee of safety is to go with the other guy to the clinic and watch him get the results back.... and nobody's gonna do that when it takes the same 10 minutes to cum from a handjob.

My wife knows I've had some "manventures" back in the day and that my best guy friend and I used to jerk off together all the time. Beyond that.... well, lucky for both of us she puts out pretty frequently or I'd have a much harder choice to deal with!

Yes I play with other men, Wife doesn't know. Love going to rest areas and truck stops. I love truckers. Used to be there were glory holes at the rest areas. Haven't for along time I would go to adult book stores. Some also had glory holes. But know must of them have closed up.

I'm the same--small town ---very curious about being with a guy.Wanna try it--been wanting to for a long time.So I chat,exchange e-mails,and do it in secret.I'm single and have gotten close....but no cigar!

Hey Cockatrice, You can't get aids from getting your dick sucked...........

How do you safely confidently keep a new juice-exchange relationship?

Getting AIDS would annoy me.

That's not the only STD out there, y'know.

I travel on business, and hook up with a man occasionally. Wife knows I'm bisexual, and was actively involved with guys back in college. These days she knows I get online and masturbate with guys, and is definitely OK with that. As far as the hookups when traveling, it's probably best described as a don't ask don't tell arrangement. BTW, some of the hottest man sex I've ever had was with a young family man who was having his first "forbidden" male fling.

I wish! Wife wouldn't be up for that. Wife is a prude! But sex is a 0. I really want to worship some cock on the side but worry about the side effects.I have always fantasized about licking her pussy while she's being fucked (more like licking his shaft and her pussy) But I don't see that happening either.

It seems there are lots of younger married guys who would like to have some fun with other guys but as they are still getting sufficient sex from thier wives they dont crave it as much as us older guys who very often get absolutely zero sex from our wives.
It must be great when your wife knows about your liking for man sex and approves of you wanking on cam with other guys or better still allowing you to have fun in real life with them. Most married men tend to keep thier mansex secret as I have done all through my married life - only with one buddy though and I havent met him for a few years and now I am craving some sex with another guy.
I am sure if men got more sex from their wife then these sites would be lot less active and we wouldnt bother searching the internet for sexual fulfilment except for maybe the odd occasion when we fancy a change.

I really appreciate this post. I can totally relate. I've come to going to far with a guy, but never have--not since I was married. I love my wife terribly. Nothing is worth risking her love and relationship. She would never understand. And my wife is first-rate in bed! no complaints at all! I suspect that 99% of men who cant get sex with their wife aren't loving her enough. And a man can never fill what a woman can fill in a man's life. If you have ever been truly deeply in love with a woman, you know what I mean.

Im also staight and married with 2 young kids , 28 year old and have messed aroung alot with other"str8" mates since around 11 years old ,pretty much open and have done most things sexualy with male and female

I am curious and have tried craigslist a few times. Twice I thought I had found someone to just stroke with but they bailed both times. But I think the last guy will come around but unfortunately don't have plans to be back in that city any time soon. Definitely have sort out the real people