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swimmingholes Novice Jackinchatter

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So this popped up yesterday. The article is appalling. The comments are entertaining, but more would be great. http://www.salon.com/2013/05/29/please_dont_masturbate_with_my_husband/
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That's...I guess I can see her point but it's a situation I can see from all sides. I found that the more she spoke of her own life and inability to keep friends, unjust thought wow! Fair play for upholding their own values but...I don't know, just seems like an over reaction, though I understand why.
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aUKGuy Amateur Jackinchatter

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swimmingholes said:
The article is appalling.


Indeed - I don't think the author comes out of it particularly well!
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Yeah, dude should have politely declined if he didn't want to play with his bud and left it at that.
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wantsumfun Amateur Jackinchatter

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Seemed like a lot of whining horseshit if you ask me. I think the author has issues. If you dont want to play just a polite no would suffice. No need for self pity, whining, and drama.

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I stopped reading after the first paragraph.
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That lady is a bit of a pill. Oh well, you get out of this life what you make out of this life.
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You know , there is a middle ground between having no friends and friends you jack off with.
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gr8lighting Amateur Jackinchatter

215 posts since 2011-12-31
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Okay, first of all, oh my god and thank the lord that I didn't run into a bunch of misogynistic comments in this thread. Thank you. (I'm sure some will show up, but it makes me feel better that this isn't reddit.)

Second of all, reread this part:

Our couples friendship with August and Dana had been going so well. The night before the phone call that changed everything, the four of us feasted on Chinese soup dumplings in the San Gabriel neighborhood of Los Angeles and laughed so hard that tears dribbled down our cheeks. A month before that, we toasted our friendship over glasses of almond champagne in Temecula. August was so enthusiastic about going on the road trip, he’d spent hours drawing a cartoonish itinerary that included caricatures of us and multicolored illustrations of the wineries we’d visit. A month before that, they came over for an elaborate high tea that included silly hats, homemade scones and petits fours, and fake English accents. We saw August and Dana often, cooked meals for each other, and had long, meaningful conversations. Finally, I thought we’d found our people in L.A.

I want you guys to re-read that paragraph.

Then re-read it again.

Yeahhhhhhhh, that about sums it up.
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You mean they are all too twee and precious to live?
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