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Wife knows I jerk off since she has caught me several times .... pisses her off especially if watching porn. I'm more careful with the porn and have plenty of time home alone for great JO sessions!
FLGuy said:
Let me give you both some advice that has served me well. Your the man in the relationship, the Alpha. Take charge, dont let them bust your balls. If she doesnt like it that you jerk off, then she isnt doing her wifely duties to take care of you. If your wife was horny ,would you not come running to "Tap that and take care of her" why doesnt she you?
Let me give you both some advice that has served me well. Your the man in the relationship, the Alpha. Take charge, dont let them bust your balls. If she doesnt like it that you jerk off, then she isnt doing her wifely duties to take care of you. If your wife was horny ,would you not come running to "Tap that and take care of her" why doesnt she you?
Wow. what other married guy don't need to read past this paragraph to figure out this dude isn't married yet? lol good luck to you, FLGuy, in your marriage.
Honestly, it's a fairly absurd claim to say that your wife has no say over your body at all, as your wife. does that mean you're free to kill yourself by eating fried foods every night? Obviously, whatever you do impacts your wife, just like whatever she does impacts you. This is one of the most basic truths of marriage, buddy.
That's not to say that you shouldn't jerk off when you want, but like most married men on this post (and site), I'll echo the sentiment that my wife has no idea how often I jerk off, and I'll keep it that way. No need for her to know. There's literally no good thing that would come from her knowing, and many good things that come from her not knowing.
The justification that I'm "king of my castle," is not built on solid ground.
some guys like myself also get off on the wife being in control and punishing you (otk spanking, pegging).
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My wife knew I masterbated she wasn't hot on the idea. I really never had much porn around the house. After all the kids weregone she warmed up to the idea of mutual masterbation. We bought a few toys for her and she loved it. I can't tell you how many times while in the car she would flash her pussy at me than reach over and unzip my pants and blow me or jack me off as I drove. Fun times.
I've been married 20 years to the same woman. A woman who has almost ZERO sex drive. She is not thrilled about my masturbation habit, but she understands that I have to release my sexual energy somewhere and she isn't willing to do it, so jacking off and porn have kept us together. Without it, I'd have left her years ago.
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NJhubby said:
Wow. what other married guy don't need to read past this paragraph to figure out this dude isn't married yet? lol good luck to you, FLGuy, in your marriage.
Honestly, it's a fairly absurd claim to say that your wife has no say over your body at all, as your wife. does that mean you're free to kill yourself by eating fried foods every night? Obviously, whatever you do impacts your wife, just like whatever she does impacts you. This is one of the most basic truths of marriage, buddy.
That's not to say that you shouldn't jerk off when you want, but like most married men on this post (and site), I'll echo the sentiment that my wife has no idea how often I jerk off, and I'll keep it that way. No need for her to know. There's literally no good thing that would come from her knowing, and many good things that come from her not knowing.
The justification that I'm "king of my castle," is not built on solid ground.
Unmarried guys always have 'the answer' to marriage.Wow. what other married guy don't need to read past this paragraph to figure out this dude isn't married yet? lol good luck to you, FLGuy, in your marriage.
Honestly, it's a fairly absurd claim to say that your wife has no say over your body at all, as your wife. does that mean you're free to kill yourself by eating fried foods every night? Obviously, whatever you do impacts your wife, just like whatever she does impacts you. This is one of the most basic truths of marriage, buddy.
That's not to say that you shouldn't jerk off when you want, but like most married men on this post (and site), I'll echo the sentiment that my wife has no idea how often I jerk off, and I'll keep it that way. No need for her to know. There's literally no good thing that would come from her knowing, and many good things that come from her not knowing.
The justification that I'm "king of my castle," is not built on solid ground.
FLGuy said:
Let me give you both some advice that has served me well. Your the man in the relationship, the Alpha. Take charge.....
Let me give you both some advice that has served me well. Your the man in the relationship, the Alpha. Take charge.....
I'd be jacking all the time too without a willing and ready sex partner in bed with me. On the other hand, back when we were dating, she knew how horny I am, and has always been OK with my masturbating to take some of the sex pressure off of her. She sees my Fleshlight inserts drying in the bathroom all the time.
As for being the alpha male, that works if its mostly in the bedroom, and she's turned on by being submissive. Some Domination/Submission play can be arousing, and we do that a lot.
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MistressT said:
I really feel sorry for FLGuy's fiance.
I really feel sorry for FLGuy's fiance.
...and a lot of us guys do as well
SloStroker said:
I've been married 20 years to the same woman. A woman who has almost ZERO sex drive. She is not thrilled about my masturbation habit, but she understands that I have to release my sexual energy somewhere and she isn't willing to do it, so jacking off and porn have kept us together. Without it, I'd have left her years ago.
I've been married 20 years to the same woman. A woman who has almost ZERO sex drive. She is not thrilled about my masturbation habit, but she understands that I have to release my sexual energy somewhere and she isn't willing to do it, so jacking off and porn have kept us together. Without it, I'd have left her years ago.
I think we could be married to the same woman!!
onlinebud73 said:
I would be jerking all the time of not married and also likely getting in to kinkier stuff than I am now...
I would be jerking all the time of not married and also likely getting in to kinkier stuff than I am now...
Good comment! Getting into kinkier stuff happens when you're married too.
I agree with you Mistress. Divorce is so easy and he is pretty much setting himself up. And if he gets a female judge, he will be taken to the cleaners.
Also, I'm divorced from a sexually repressed hag. Joined AFF and now I get fucked anytime I want from several different women. All my current girlfriends know I love to have my cock stroked. They all seem to enjoy providing it too. I have a huge tit fetish, current girlfriend has 34DDD's and reads Score magazine with me.
The all seem mezmerized when I beat in front of them. So are you really lucky your married?
MistressT said:
I really feel sorry for FLGuy's fiance.
I really feel sorry for FLGuy's fiance.
Also, I'm divorced from a sexually repressed hag. Joined AFF and now I get fucked anytime I want from several different women. All my current girlfriends know I love to have my cock stroked. They all seem to enjoy providing it too. I have a huge tit fetish, current girlfriend has 34DDD's and reads Score magazine with me.
The all seem mezmerized when I beat in front of them. So are you really lucky your married?
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