My wife knows I am bi and has no problem with it. I told her on our second date 26 years ago and she didn't bat an eye. It didn't matter to her then and it still doesn't. Over the years I have had a couple of JO/SO buddies (I'm currently between buddies at the moment) and she has known about them all and been very supportive of me finding and having a male friend I can play sexually with. As she says, she isn't really equipped to satisfy that particular need of mine. Though she does regularly fuck me with a strap on and she loves doing that.

So I was wondering, how many of you have wives who know you are bi and are they ok with it or are they not approving? I know I am one lucky guy. My wife is my best friend and soul mate and has told me many times that me being bi is a part of my being and she wouldn't change it for the world.

Not into the anal part, but my wife saw me stroke and suck a dick before we were married. Not only did she accept that part of me, she encouraged it and loved watching.
She said she had some of her best orgasms watching me suck a dick and swallow a load.
Present 44 yr old gf loves watching and has even set up a few 3somes and 4somes for us.

My wife was the one who wanted me to try bi for her. She was bi and wanted to see two men suck each other off in front of her. So one afternoon we talked a bi guy into letting her watch as he sucked me off in this mouth. I then sucked his cock and after maybe 4 or 5 minutes he took his cock out of my mouth & fucked my wife in front of me. We both liked it and have been bi for the past 18 years.

My bi experimentation started later in life. My wife was very understanding, although she had no interest in watching or participating. She asks only that I be careful and avoid the risks of anonymous meetings, book stores, etc.

Lucky guys!

My wife knows I'm bi but does not support any sexual contact outside of marriage.

Mine knows but it took a while for her to get comfortable with it. She was always understanding and accepting of my feelings, but not ok with actually acting on them. Over the past year she has become much more comfortable with the idea of me having a male playmate, and possibly finding a guy to join the two of us in bed as well.

Well I've talked my wife into fucking another guy and I did her afterward. Even went down on her after he had cum in her and yet she doesn't think "gosh maybe he's bi". I wonder though if she might actually be accepting of it once she understood I'm not gay. Hard to say though. Not worth the risk.

My wife's fear was that I might want to leave her for a guy. Once she understood that I had no interest in a relationship she was much more relaxed about the whole idea.

SlightlySalty brings up the major problem my wife has with guy on guy stuff. We've been married for 13 years, and been in the swinging lifestyle for about 7 or 8. Our swinging activities are being voyeurs/exhibitionists at swinger clubs/parties, and mostly threesomes with select guys. However, the threesomes are always only about pleasing her. Both of us guys focus on her, with no guy on guy action, unfortunately I did ask her once if she would like to see me and the guy playing, and she said no. Her reasoning was that she'd wonder if I was more into guys than her. I've thought about really discussing this in-depth with her, but like one of the other guys said, not sure it is worth the risk. If I push it too far, it might become a major issue.
I keep wondering if I push the envelope in one of our threesomes, if she'd decide she likes it. You know, maybe suck the guy with her and see how she reacts. Again, risky move, especially if she freaks out Funny, though, I've gotten about as close to it as I can. I've licked their cum off of her, sucked on her clit as she was getting fucked, AND done double vaginal, so there has been some contact between me and the other guy. I guess she has an issue with the overt contact. Oh, well. Maybe one day

You're a lucky man!

I think my gf knows I find some men attractive and love wanking to cocks and cumshots. It's a sort of unofficial acknowledgement though, and I know she'd be upset if she ever suspected I'd been with a guy. Same as if I started shagging around with other women really. At the moment I restrict my bisexual desires to porn and fantasy!