I have been thinking about telling my wife I jack. We have not had sex in 2 years and I have jacked everyday since what is the best approach to take

Get horny. Start wanking and call her in. Let her see exactly what you are doing, and if possible cum when she walks in.

If it goes well....all good. If it doesn't explain that you haven't had sex for two years so WHAT THE FUCK DOES SHE EXPECT YOU TO DO.

(Or tell her that you love her and this is the only way you can get any release without being unfaithful....)

At the end of the day it's her fucking fault.

She's your wife and she doesn't know you masturbate. My wife and I didn't have sex till we'd dated about a month, but we masturbated together from our third date on. I think we talked about how much we masturbated on our second date. My wife confessed to doing it 2 to 3 times a week. I told her I did it two to three times too....every day. LOL!

We've been together 19 years, and her sex drive is zero. We hardly ever fuck, but she still enjoys using her vibrator. Just last night I jacked off while she brought herself to five orgasms with her toy. She was totally exhausted from cumin so hard.

If your wife really thinks you aren't masturbating, you have a bigger issue at hand. I'm sure she knows and I'm sure she masturbates too. Just sit down and talk. It's completely normal to masturbate.

Why tell her and take a chance on ruining a good thing?

My wife knows I jerk off and does not like it. I have to hide it. My problem is for her to accept it so I can be more opened about it.

let me ask you a couple questions. is she stupid? was she born fucking yesterday? SHE KNOWS! LOL

I don't get it. How could your wife not know that you jack off? I would never have continued to date a woman who didn't accept or like it, much less marry one that way. The words "does not compute" comes to mind.

Not going to be as harsh as some, but I must say this thread is a little odd, to me. Masturbation by both sexes has well been established as a normal activity and it is *rare* that either sex, involved in a relationship or not, doesn't engage in self pleasure. Being on here is not normal .. obviously .. but we like it more Still, my wife knows I j/o and I know she masturbates .. doesn't take away from our sex life and certainly isn't a big deal in the relationship. She may not want to know I'm thinking of "so and so" or whatever, otherwise, it's pretty much a given we all do it and it's pretty much a given we all accept it now. Hell, most women have toys now -- it's not even taboo and hasn't been in a long time!

My wife knew I was masturbating while she was pregnant with our first kid and to this day doesnt look much into it. 18 years later, there are times where I wake up with a boner and i'll start masturbating while she is getting ready for work and it doesn't phase her and she don't really bother me much. We still have somewhat of a normal sex life but not nearly as often so its sorta expected.

u say im jackin

Mine's known all along. No big deal.

Last night, told her that, if she didn't feel up to fooling around (broken ankle and fighting off a cold or flu), I was going to stay up when she went to bed, surf some porn, and jerk off.

And that's exactly what I did.

Most if not all woman know that guys like to jerk off from time to time for some variety. You need to introduce her to your solo activities and have her cum play along with you. You may be surprised to know she may like it too.

My wife is well aware and enjoys watching me jack off on occasion.

I'm in a similar boat, I think my wife and I have had sex maybe twice in the last year. I've told her I jack off, but she's not all that interested. Guys are different than girls, lots of women don't really need sex, but guys really need it.

My wife was reading a book once that included the notion that a happy home includes a guy with empty balls. It went on to ask: 'does that mean I have to have sex with him all the time? No, but he needs to have an outlet." She shared this with me and maybe it was her way of saying that she doesn't mind me masturbating, because she sure hasn't done anything to help ;-)

That's my wife. We fuck once a month, usually when her hormones change and she gets horny. I jack off the rest of the time and she doesn't mind at all. She told me once, "I don't have any sex drive so either you are gonna masturbate or cheat on me and I'd rather you masturbate."

She buys my Albolene for me, brings me my laptop in the morning, and on occasion will let me play with her tits till I cum.

She's been using a vibrator since she was 12yo so no cock can make her cum as hard as her vibe. If she wants to cum, it's typically not cock she wants.