Over the past several years I have discovered that I can provide with just my penis and balls, all by myself, an excruciatingly mind blowing, trembling,and vocal orgasm using just my own hand ( and occasionally a couple of toys from the adult store.) I no longer need or want any pussy and the difficulties that can often accompany getting pussy. I have found however, that I am becoming more interested in seeing what men have between their legs when I am at the beach, swiming pool, gym lockers and showers and even urinals, so I can compare them with what I have. I now find though that I have an increasingly strong desire for the company and even possibly the contact of a Jack off Buddy.
Am I becoming Gay?

I'd say your just a normal guy expanding your sexualty

Hang in there nineboxer you have lots of us that feel the same way. So you aren't alone. Just have to find a fellow that you can trust enough to talk it out. I have a close friend her son just told us here at Christmas time he was gay and had been with a young guy for a couple years now, he is 22 yrs old and his sister told me that he had been living a gay life since he was a pre-teen, I have been trying to talk with him for a few weeks now, no luck yet.

No not at all. There are a number of studies to suggest there is a scale. I do not know how to give you the link's to these exact studies. But I can direct you to this.
http://seven-pints.blogspot.co.uk/2010/10/interview-with-conran-thomas.html?zx=b893ae70ae058cab
Copy and paste the entire link. I hope this help's.

You're not gay unless you have romantic feelings toward the same sex. Wanting to hang out and bust a nut with a guy doesn't make you gay.

What do you think about when you JO ?

Becoming Gay???? No. You're already fucking gay and a sick pervert too!!!!
Get Help and tell your dad to do the same.

What a crock of shit

His Father......

you dont become gay. you are or you're not. you're 21 so you got a lot going on. seems like you're just looking to do something exciting and maybe different. are you attracted to men or is it just a cock thing? do you look at women at all? watch regular porn etc? maybe you are gay and not becoming gay. if you were gay you would know it. jerkung off a lot at your age and maybe having a jack off bud is way easier than the hassles of chasing women. doesn't mean you're gay though. I think it would be normal for any guy to check out other cocks in a locker room or whatever. its human nature. if you start thinking romantically about men or find a guy you'd like to build a breakfast nook with then you might be gay. lol

Honestly i think the lesbian/gay movement and the extreme conservatives have confused a lot of people. There are a lot of us who fantasize about a gay encounter, but that doesnt make us gay. For a lot of us that feeling fades after we cum any way. Maybe the guy who called you a perv is partially right. We men would do a lot of things when we are horny, which is basically being perverted.

Not wanting to deal with female bullshit is normal. Ask any married man, and if he was honest he would tell you that he dreamed about being single at least one week out of the month.

Now if you want to go on dates with guys, or cuddle with a naked man...then maybe you are gay. Just dont force yourself into a box its hard to get out of.

Yes you're gay.

I agree with this comment. Forget about the labels.

No! You aren't becoming gay. You are gay, which was decided before you were born.

It sounds as though you could quite possibly be gay. Or bi, but with a significant preference for men.