Frankly, I agree with you all. The predictable, one dimensional horny moron who just wants to be entertained or made to cum usually does just open with 'hey' 'what u into' or 'sup'...but WE, because I am including myself, are starting to come off as a little pissy here with our complaints. That could be the result of frustration and constant repetition, but we shouldn't condemn simple greetings so quickly. It's more about one word answers through the whole conversation and the lack of ability to express that is the worst and privately, being an old school chatter, I think I hate it more than any of you lol. Anyway, you find that out fast enough. Within minutes, so I don't immediately ignore anyone who says hello or asks ASL. I talk. I reply. When it's easy to see they don't, that's when I give up. I guess that's just my two cents. I'll chat with anyone until that point.

I must concur with your sentiments said here. I was just writing to another online contact who no longer chats online, that the pickings are slim in regards to finding another to chat with who goes beyond the "ASL" first line, and as you said, one word replies every couple minutes that tend to follow. It can indeed be frustrating.

PS.
Well said.

Well crap! Im probably on lots of ignore lists, i quite often dont remember what site i found someone on and dont remember what common interest there was, other than j/o,,, but certainly never meant to offend or bore. Im sometimes socially inept and dont know what to say so might say wrong thing. If i knew i was ignored i could remove from my list,,,,it is a short list tho, if i remove many itll b empty. If anybody want to chat or cam or whatever just find me on yim or skype. Have fun!

Dr. Pogen, that is an extraordinary Tumblr. Thank you for sharing it.

To my mind, "What are you into" is fine if unaccompanied by a friend request. Even if you have a good memory, or have seen someone's Profile, most have multiple interests, and the question is really shorthand for "What are you into NOW", which can save a lot of disappointment.

Gotta say I'm about done with the yahoo thing for similar reasons. I like to get on there, chat with someone normal, trade some pics, mic and get off together. I love hearing a guy getting off to the same thing as me. However, a very annoying thing is when I get hit up with "ASL?" followed by "yo send me pics of your chick" or "you stroking?" or "you edging?"

By far though the most obnoxious thing is when I trade some pics with someone, get off and mic together and a couple days later said individual is horny and gives me the "ASL?" Really!?!?? If you can't keep track of who you have chatted with even a day or two later you may have a problem.

The ones that bug me the most are the pushy guys. If I tell them they aren't interested, they respond with "why?"
or the immediately push for photos of me or my fiancee and then get pissed when I dont send them any.
No means no.

I agree with all of them except the last one. When im adding 10 people in one night its kinda hard to remember what i added them for a night or two later. What gets people on my ignore list is when i ask them what they are into and they respond "lots of things" or "just about everything except scat" or "milfs". Like 99% of the people i talk to do that. how hard is it to say what you like?

Hey yall sup asl u edgin lol
you guys need to chill wow

I'll concede it's not easy to keep track of everyone and his kinks. "Wot u in2?" is just so lazy and ubiquitous.

Speaking of questions I keep hearing the exact same ones over and over again.

"Did you sniff her panties?"

No, I didn't.

"Did you jerk off while you listened to them?"

No, I didn't.

"What's the biggest pair you've had your cock between?"

Nothing worth writing home about.

Also, whenever I mention that I'm withholding orgasm I'm almost always asked if I'm saving up for a "big load." Holding off will increase the volume but not so much as you might imagine. It's good to feel virile but the amount of fluid released has nothing to do with the pleasure experienced, which is the whole damn point of masturbation.

One more thing, if you're not actually there and available to chat, please change your status to "busy," or go invisible, or leave a message, or sign off. Light's on; nobody's home.

It's amusing - if also depressing - to observe that many of those questions are also the titles of some of the most replied-to threads on the JC forums.

I like what frostee and Ben have to say. I get tired of filtering through 50 people to have somewhat of an educational conversation before talking about jerkin. Asking me 2 seconds into the conversation for pictures isnt very trustworthy either. Atleast if your going to ask for pictures have some to share. Lets get to know each other for 5 minutes before we start spilling personal details of one another.

sup

Don't you all think you're being a little picky?

- Sometimes I'll add a person but not get to talk to them for days, weeks, or even months after adding them. I add a LOT of people. It's hard to remember exactly who you added and exactly for what stroking material. Nowadays I'll leave a little one-line message saying "Hey I added you from jackinchat, I'm into Asian pornstars too" as both an indicator for them and a reminder for myself.

- I LOVE when I get unsolicited Photoshare invites. You never know what's going to pop up and in your mind it's like the other person saying "fuck yea, I'm gonna MAKE you stroke your cock with me over the hot stuff I send you".

- I can understand someone asking if you're in the middle of a stroke. Some people are shy/quiet until they're horny. Some people are mid-session with someone else when you message them. Some may have forgot they were online altogether.

- Sometimes it's nice to ask what someone else is into... seeing their suggestions may give you ideas as to what you mutually wish to stroke to. See my original point.


My biggest gripes about Yahoo stroking are:

Edge Times - Some guys will last 4 friggin hours! I like to cum in 30 mins to 1hr. If I'm stroking with an edger I try to let them know that I'll be cumming within the hour, yet some will still get pissed when I cum.

Photo/Chat Management - I generally like two styles of photoshare: one where a content provider controls the content and I am in to help drive the naughty chat (which really is the main attraction) or a system by which each person adds sets of photos at a time (ranging from altering 1 by 1 to adding 10 photos at a time). In any case I do like dirty talk. I wouldn't exactly write a thesis on a celeb's left breast, but I also wouldn't want to be in a chat where we've shared 150 pics and have said a grand total of 5 words to each other.

Highly Confused "Straight" Men - I get really confused when a guy identifies himself as straight then asks me to put my cock in his ass. I identify as bi-curious or bi-friendly to indicate that I'm open to cock-on-cock action and mutual stroking. Get me horny enough and we can mutually suck each other too, but that's about it. Just be forthcoming.

Pushy Bi Guys - Look, I identify as bi-curious on the Internet, but I have my limits. If I don't want to do something, don't keep pushing because I'll just ignore you.

People come in all varieties. I like the variety. I used the folder method to sort friends according to primary interest and communicativeness.

And then our situations vary. Not all of us are on welfare sitting in grandmas basement with nothing to do but masturbate. Some of us are trying to chat as we work, drive, as family wanders by, as wives bring us coffee, as kids need help with algebra. Moods vary. Amount of free time varies. All that takes its toll. If you can care about the other person and embrace their situation and enjoy it, delete the deadbeat contacts and stay relaxed, you can enjoy a LOT of delightful online sex.

Personally I don't mind what you into and asl? Providing a) they've said hello first and b) we haven't had a dozen decent chats already and you still can't remember who I am.

My biggest gripe is THE FUCKERS WHO NEVER SIGN OUT! How am I supposed to know if you're there if you never sign out? Aaahhhh! Drives me mad.