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derelicte2112 Novice Jackinchatter

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I'm in a relationship, but have had curiosity about doing a circle jerk. What the opinion on this? Do you guys think it would be cheating if I met with some guys to rub one out?
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junojava Amateur Jackinchatter

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It would depend on whether your partner considered it cheating.
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ZMAN Professional Jackinchatter

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Are you in a relationship with a girl, or a guy? And are they as open as you about that sort of thing? It really depends on your significant other, and how they would see it.
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whtmntnstroker Amateur Jackinchatter

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my guess is a woman would see it as cheating and fucked up. as a guy I don't think its cheating and I'm sure the rest of the guys here don't. just do it and don't say anything. real cheating is fucking another chick.
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My opinion, jerking off is not cheating and if you do it with a bud, still not cheating.
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If it's something you can't get at home, it's not cheating :-)
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Rod Enlightened Jackinchatter

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junojava said:
It would depend on whether your partner considered it cheating.


This.

If it involves directing or receiving sexual (or emotional) attention with someone other than your partner and/or at the expense of that attention being with your partner and your partner has not given his/her consent, it's cheating.
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If I had it to do all over again, I'd marry a very sexually open woman that I could be completely honest with. If you feel you have to hide things from your significant other you are probably with the wrong person.
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If I did anything like this without my fiancee's permission or knowledge it would absolutely be cheating.
I'm just a guy
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i agree with Ben, it would be cheating.
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whtmntnstroker said:
my guess is a woman would see it as cheating and fucked up. as a guy I don't think its cheating and I'm sure the rest of the guys here don't. just do it and don't say anything. real cheating is fucking another chick.

I basically agree with this post because all my past circle jerks have been guys all standing in the same room. If you were to get more intimate with any one guy of the group and take it to a private room, or more, say on a bed or the floor, then I would call it cheating, but just a group of guys standing around watching each other masturbate...NO
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I think most women would consider it cheating. Unless you've shared that part of your life with her, it's going to be a betrayal.

I would be ok with it if I knew that my partner had a desire to be with a man. Another woman though? That would chap my ass and probably ruin the relationship.
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marriedboner Skilled Jackinchatter

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Agree with Rod, Ben, and Annabelle. It's cheating.

Depends on whether you want to take the risk -- of what it does to your view of your relationship, of being found out, of not being able to stop -- in other words what it does to you as a person. And on what you get out of it.

How are you going to feel about it the morning after? is a good way of putting it.
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According to my wife it would be.I dont see it that way.Sex with the opposite sex is cheating,not with the same sex.My ex was OK with me sucking cock,so it depends on the woman.
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If it's something you wouldn't dare tell her about, then you already know it's cheating, and no amount of "permission" from other guys makes it right.
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