My wife seldom fucks me so I understand how exciting it would be to see a big dick stud fucking her and driving her wild.

I wish I knew a local guy who wasn't getting what he needed from his girl and came to me to take care of his cock. I'd worship it in a way a woman never could

When my fiancee and I started dating he would worship my cock, the moment I proposed, she first decided that she wanted to abstain until our wedding night to make it "more special". Somehow that has transitioned into rarely touching at all, an then only a quick handjob (once every few weeks if I'm lucky). I ask for her to suck, but she acts like a few brief sucks is enough. She claims it's because sucking and other forms entice her into fucking an makes it hard for her not to, I personally call bs on that. The lack of affection is what is making me bi-curious! I'm tempted to cheat with a woman, but love her too much for that, but the idea of a quick no strings play with a guy is tempting as well, without all the mess (metaphorical mess of course )

^Sentry's post sounds far too familiar. Right there with ya buddy.

Yeah, my wife claims she doesn't like "porn sex" and won't suck me or anything. She likes to make out like teenagers then "cuddle". She says, "Why does it always have to lead to sex? Can't we just be romantic?". She says she likes sex, but she seldom gets in the mood for it. Her vibrator gets her off better than I ever could, so she has that covered. She just needs me for "cuddling" as apparently the vibrator isn't very good at that.

it's too bad it wasn't socially acceptable for men to casually hook up with other men for j/o when their wives don't satisfy them. I'm really wishing I could find some local guys who's cocks need some attention from another guys hand, who's wives don't pay attention to their cocks needs. It would be fun to have guys coming over for handjobs and some male bonding

I guess I have been a lot luckier in this regard than a lot of guys. Even way back in high school in 1954-55, one of my girlfriends learned that I liked her playing with my cock, and she also found she liked it too. She gave me many handjobs in the drive-in movies. Then later with my 1st wife, she also got her kicks out of jerking me off, along with fucking.
Then with my 2nd wife of 40 years, she was even more facinated with making me cum, any way or place she could do it. After she passed away in 2006, I have been very well treated by her older widowed sister, and treats my cock just as good as my wife did.

lets hear some more from you guys posting about this topic!

I think it is obvious that most guys want their cocks played with more by their wives than they get today. I also am sure these same guys would consider another guy playing with their cocks, thus the interest in this site!

Exactly,....we have craved someone, (or something), touching our cocks, (hands, mouths, pussies, asses),..since we were very young, and that never stops. And when our significant others don't fulfill that craving, we think about who will.

All the time.

Same boat here. My wife and I have sex regularly and it is good, but she doesn't really pay much attention to my cock leading up to it. She'll jerk me off for a few minutes and tickle my balls a bit, but that's about it. It's like she thinks that just because it's hard, it doesn't need attention.

Definitely...I love having sex with the girl and she really turns me on, but I also would really wish for more blowjobs or handjobs to completion and just generally more love and need for my cock, which is a big reason I think I fantasize about JO/BJs with other guys

My gf and I rarely have sex these days. Even most attempts to initiate fall flat. When we do get it on, a blowjob is usually pretty brief and standard. I don't believe she OWES me anything, though, so I'd never say I'm being wronged or anything. But it is frustrating.

Absolutely agree! My cock needs as much attention as her clit and pussy!