I was at her house,,,we watched tv and had sex and went to bed,,she got up to have a shower,,,and I was laying in bed,,,so I figured I,d get off,,i was stroking it,,and blew my load just as she opened the door,,she caught me with cum flying,,she cryed most of the day,,,i can,t beleave shes so upset and not into it or even ok with it,,why don,t girls understand that guys love to masturbate

did you shoot when you were having sex with her? From what you posted it sounds like you didn't. Maybe she is pissed that you didn't get off with her but did after she left

Time to have an adult discussion with her about sexuality. And it isn't just men who love to masturbate - women do also. How old is this woman that she wants to live in the fantasy (because that's what it is) that people don't ever touch themselves?

If she persists in being upset, the option is that you can let her know that you will continue to masturbate, but do her the courtesy of trying to do it without her catching you. In exchange she will do you the courtesy of pretending not to know and leave you alone.

If not, you will need to find another girlfriend who has a realistic and mature attitude towards sex.

o I got off,,,i more then please her,,,over and over,,,i wish she was ok with me touching myself

shes older then me,,shes 46 and I,m 40,,i told her I get off 2 or 3 times a day,,with or with out a girlfriend,,and I told her I would still want to jerk off even if we had sex 3 or 4 times a day,,

I love her a lot,,,i hope she will open up some,,mutual masturbation is something I want in my realationship

What kind of sheltered life do you have to life to make it to 46 and be so ignorant about masturbation?

Hmm.... there may be more to this than you have let on. TAKE A LOOK AT THE ORIGIN OF THIS THREAD Speaks volumes

Too bad, I get to have phone wanks with my girlfriend. It's hot listening to each other cum.

When I was 41 I had a girlfriend that was 43 and she didn't understand it either. Needless to say it didn't last. I don't need to spend my life with someone with those types of hang ups.

Issues.... Run away quick. Its your body not hers anyway. Only the beginning of more problems if you stay with it.

She's also a cunt. Sorry.

My wife is not perfect by any stretch of the means, but on our third date we were making out like crazy and I was hard as a rock. I joked that I needed to take her home so I could "take care of myself". She laughed and said, "You mean masturbate?". I said yes and she admitted to masturbating "all the time" and said she wanted to watch me.

I knew I had a pretty good girl there. To this day I still masturbate daily and my wife doesn't mind at all. We masturbate together quite a bit as my wife still enjoys masturbating.

My advice is to talk with you GF, explain to her how much you enjoy masturbation, and how good it makes you feel. If she can't accept it, then it seems to me she's pretty selfish and it may be just the tip of the iceberg.

Wow thats weird. She should enjoy it. Its nothing personal.

Sounds like she is upset you did it right after sex . It's like after thanksgiving dinner catching you at the waffle house less than an hour later