Ask her whether she masturbates.
If that obvious truism does not wash, tell her you were fantasizing about her lips--both sets--when you were JOing.
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jobud34 said:
Time to have an adult discussion with her about sexuality. And it isn't just men who love to masturbate - women do also. How old is this woman that she wants to live in the fantasy (because that's what it is) that people don't ever touch themselves?
If she persists in being upset, the option is that you can let her know that you will continue to masturbate, but do her the courtesy of trying to do it without her catching you. In exchange she will do you the courtesy of pretending not to know and leave you alone.
If not, you will need to find another girlfriend who has a realistic and mature attitude towards sex.
Time to have an adult discussion with her about sexuality. And it isn't just men who love to masturbate - women do also. How old is this woman that she wants to live in the fantasy (because that's what it is) that people don't ever touch themselves?
If she persists in being upset, the option is that you can let her know that you will continue to masturbate, but do her the courtesy of trying to do it without her catching you. In exchange she will do you the courtesy of pretending not to know and leave you alone.
If not, you will need to find another girlfriend who has a realistic and mature attitude towards sex.
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If I had to start over in a relationship (been married for 23 years) there are some ground rules that I would establish. "Must love porn, masturbation, and alcohol." My wife does masturbate occasionally but is not into porn at all and disapproves of drinking. I don't care about watching sports on the weekend or needing to go out with my buddies. I don't watch sports and I don't have any friends. Porn and drinking would need to be a central part of any new relationship. We'd see where it went from there.
Agree on the ground rules. If I had it to do over again, I'd marry the sluttiest sex crazed whore I could find. Then when we got married and the old marriage sex decrease kicked in she'd be about right. 
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I guess I have never met or had any relationship with any woman who had a problem with her guy jerking off. In my high school days in the drive-in movies either my date would suck my off or jerk me off, or she would jerk me while I was jilling her. My 1st wife was comfortable either jerking me of or watching me jack me off myself.
Later with my 2nd wife, she was even more a proponant of masturbation, her own, mine or our mutual orgasms. She passed away in 2006, and she had brought her older widowed sister into our sex life in 2005, and Sis was also a fan of masturbation, hers or mine.
So I have never had any problem with "being caught jerking off".
Later with my 2nd wife, she was even more a proponant of masturbation, her own, mine or our mutual orgasms. She passed away in 2006, and she had brought her older widowed sister into our sex life in 2005, and Sis was also a fan of masturbation, hers or mine.
So I have never had any problem with "being caught jerking off".
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it was the next morning
she caught u move on and get over it
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BukkakeLover said:
Issues.... Run away quick. Its your body not hers anyway. Only the beginning of more problems if you stay with it.
Issues.... Run away quick. Its your body not hers anyway. Only the beginning of more problems if you stay with it.
And he is 100% correct! Real serious issues if she doesn't like masturbation and you do. You will not change her. When I got out of the Navy and got serious about looking for a mate, I had ground rules too. I didn't want a virgin. I wanted a woman who knew about sex. I wanted one who would suck my dick. I wanted one who had no problem with porn. I wanted one who was willing to try new things and would withhold judgement until she did try them. I knew I wanted one who would tend to be bisexual and had no problem with my interest in cocks. I didn't take but about 2 months to find her, and man she was beautiful to boot. We have been married over 40 years, had and continue to have a great sex life. We masturbate a lot together. I had good luck, but also made a wise choice!
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Dated a woman that liked to have me jackoff and shoot my cum on her face and tits . Ex wife and I used Jo all the time . Present not so fond of it
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Some women feel like if you have to jackoff, then they aren't doing something right or you like it more than them. Just have a talk with her. See if she by chance will masturbate in front of you. Maybe try this...Talk to her first to se if you can get her to try this. One time during foreplay, you start to jackoff then have her wrap her hand around the other side of your hand to help. That way you can jackoff and she feels involved. Might turn her on and you all could end up having some of the best sex ever that night!
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