Posted on 2014-09-22 01:59 AM
Blushes
11 posts since 2014-09-21
48 year old heterosexual from Texas
Aizbasa said:
- I lay in bed to masturbate on my back with the computer on the bed beside me. There is no way i could cam chat like that while showing "the goods". I've done it rarely without having access to see the computer screen and it isn't that exciting then so why bother.
- Most guys don't excite me. They are interested in only getting to play out their fantasy and their kinks, you are a prop to provide a live pussy show. I don't get pleasure with that.
- They get too demanding. If i offer to flash a guy on cam or whatever, it is constant requests to go further and if i don't they either throw a tantrum or constantly interject it into whatever conversation we may be having. Saying things such as "i wish i could see you on cam", "are you going to be on cam any time soon?". They think that because you talk to them about sex and masturbating and porn etc that it is somehow a right for them to then see you on cam so you can "finish the job you started".
- There are A LOT of "girls" out there who are actually guys and try and get females to engage in cyber bi/lesbian play. Like, really dude?
- I make my own videos and upload them to free sites. They are mostly kink/fetish videos and if guys are into that then i will show them the videos and pictures.
- I spent plentyyyyy of time on yahoo chat rooms for well over a decade and saw an extraordinary amount of masturbation and also let people see me. I would go into rooms with an open cam and masturbate and then leave without talking to anyone. I was willing to share but not willing to put up with the directions and requests. After all those years it loses it's appeal as something really exciting.
- Having a mutual masturbation session over IM without the constant requests for camming is so much more pleasurable. More pleasurable to share our fantasies and experiences and watch porn together while getting off. At least it is for me.
So well said!! Halelujah sister!!!
I watch men
Posted on 2014-09-22 04:05 AM
Aizbasa said:
- I lay in bed to masturbate on my back with the computer on the bed beside me. There is no way i could cam chat like that while showing "the goods". I've done it rarely without having access to see the computer screen and it isn't that exciting then so why bother.
- Most guys don't excite me. They are interested in only getting to play out their fantasy and their kinks, you are a prop to provide a live pussy show. I don't get pleasure with that.
- They get too demanding. If i offer to flash a guy on cam or whatever, it is constant requests to go further and if i don't they either throw a tantrum or constantly interject it into whatever conversation we may be having. Saying things such as "i wish i could see you on cam", "are you going to be on cam any time soon?". They think that because you talk to them about sex and masturbating and porn etc that it is somehow a right for them to then see you on cam so you can "finish the job you started".
- There are A LOT of "girls" out there who are actually guys and try and get females to engage in cyber bi/lesbian play. Like, really dude?
- I make my own videos and upload them to free sites. They are mostly kink/fetish videos and if guys are into that then i will show them the videos and pictures.
- I spent plentyyyyy of time on yahoo chat rooms for well over a decade and saw an extraordinary amount of masturbation and also let people see me. I would go into rooms with an open cam and masturbate and then leave without talking to anyone. I was willing to share but not willing to put up with the directions and requests. After all those years it loses it's appeal as something really exciting.
- Having a mutual masturbation session over IM without the constant requests for camming is so much more pleasurable. More pleasurable to share our fantasies and experiences and watch porn together while getting off. At least it is for me.
OMG! Bravo! Exactly why most women don't cam! For some reason guys turn into movie directors and become rude and demanding and kill the whole mood. I mean, the fact that we even started our cam for you in the first place should be the equivalent of catching a unicorn! I have had several wonderful guys who are sweet, moan alot, stroke the hell out of their cocks and just enjoy what I'm able to show them at that time. The experience is always amazing and both parties cum hard. All I'm saying is, be appreciative of the female who CHOOSES to share herself with you and build on that relationship. Because you never know what kind of kinky shit she will drop on you when she gets really comfortable!
Posted on 2014-09-22 06:07 AM
Unregistered
Exactly, could not agree more latinwife. Treat women with respect and oh yeah, it's on like donkey kong. Appreciate there bodies and the amazing curves they have!!!
Posted on 2014-09-26 01:45 PM
Maverick
76 posts since 2011-04-02
35 year old heterosexual
Aizbasa said:
- I lay in bed to masturbate on my back with the computer on the bed beside me. There is no way i could cam chat like that while showing "the goods". I've done it rarely without having access to see the computer screen and it isn't that exciting then so why bother.
Seems to me it would be much sexier - and much more erotic - to see the look on your face as you are experiencing all of that pleasure than it would be to have the computer between your legs giving a close up of your disembodied "goods."
Not to mention, with the computer beside you while you lie on your back, you would be able to keep typing and communicating while you are masturbating, making it more erotic for each of you.
The guys that want the computer down between your legs aren't looking to have an erotic encounter with a woman that is mutually exciting at all. They are looking to use you as a prop, as you say.
Posted on 2014-09-27 03:22 AM
jack1566hard 
2097 posts since 2012-11-10
55 year old heterosexual male from DC/MD/VA USA
Uhh women do cam on skype and every other cam chat there is. The key is they have to want to cam with you.
Working it hard
Posted on 2014-09-27 03:48 AM
Slurp 
471 posts since 2014-09-22
64 year old
They are a little harder to find, but they are out there. You have to treat them like woman and not like trash.
Posted on 2016-08-30 09:22 PM
Jack4Jill
4 posts since 2016-08-30
58 year old curious male from Nanaimo B.C. Canada
Glad to hear women's point of view on this.
As a man who has always tried to be aware of how a woman feels about men's behavior, I appreciate your honesty.
It would be awesome if men were respectful and sensitive to women's feelings. Maybe we could all get along on camera without men telling women how to position themselves, but rather enjoying the experience, while doing more to make it erotic for women.
It happens in some place, like icanhazchat.
Live, laugh, cum.
Posted on 2017-02-17 01:05 AM
Unregistered
There are guys like me out there that really just love the experience. I don't need a woman to be naked for me to get off. Just her presence often works. I'm also not pushy. We can establish up front what's off limits. I also enjoy the build up conversation and relaxing convo afterwards. However, I think it's fair to want to see the woman too. I am 100% straight and have zero desire to cum in front of a guy. So if I can't see the woman it could be a guy, girl, kid...who knows. On omegle once I had someone say they were an 18 year old girl and kept asking me to show my goods. I said I wouldn't unless they showed they were who they said. They turned on their cam and it was an 8-12 year old girl. Nope. That's why I won't to see the other person.
Posted on 2017-05-06 02:49 AM
Unregistered
DPlover said:
a) Because they are really guys that get off pretending to be chicks and messing with straight guys
b) (And this is the MOST important reason) Because there are so many creepers and weirdos on here that most real chicks are scared off quick by aggressive, pushy and overly forward/perverted guys that have no social skills to begin with as it is.
Or
c) a lot of women just aren't as comfortable with their bodies as men are.
*raises hand*
Posted on 2017-05-06 06:27 AM
LustyLorna
33 posts since 2012-10-12
43 year old curious from California
Amen - well put!
Posted on 2017-05-06 06:46 AM
gl326
197 posts since 2014-08-15
58 year old heterosexual from Ohio
Blushes said:
It is much more 'work' for females to play on cam, , guys asking "ass now, now show tit's, got any toys?, bend over", it is so distracting the girl can't enjoy watching the man! Also men tend to be 'Fuck and runs" whereas females at least would like a freindly repoire, not just used cause we have a pussy...
Not all men are like this. I know there are others. But I can only speak for myself.
Posted on 2017-05-06 08:25 AM
Unregistered
Why would a girl do for free something she could be paid for?
Posted on 2017-05-08 07:42 AM. Last edited by Unregistered on 2017-05-08 08:59 AM. (5 edits total)
Unregistered
Because most women find men disgusting in their open use of porn and sexual content. Of course women get off, but a lot of women aren't into it like men are. Women don't get off the same as men. I'm not saying that it doesn't happen, because of course it does. Also, women can get the real thing a lot easier than men. Most dumb guys will drool over a pair of tits or an ass, even if the quality is not so great, most women have higher standards. Also, the majority of men tend to be controlling, most women don't like that. Women go for hot looking guys, or at the very least, a personality. Great show of personality with your cock out on a computer screen. And what's hot about an overweight, small dicked guy covered in pubic hair asking to see more pics of you? Plus the fact that a lot of men have a shitty attitude and think they're the best thing since sliced bread. Men's personal hygiene could do with an overhaul as well.
My gf occasionally gets off online with other guys, or at least chats to guys and maybe sends them pics of her. 90% of the time she gets annoyed and tired of the typical male chat and cheesy innuendo's. Can't say I blame her. What's she getting out of it apart from a photo of an ugly penis and a boring, self centered chat? LOL!
I'm male by the way, but would put myself in a category far, far removed from the above.
Posted on 2017-05-08 11:49 AM
SloStroker 
7249 posts since 2006-08-21
52 year old bisexual male from Nashville, TN
I've chatted and talked to several women online. The key is spending the time to get to know them and be able to engage in a normal conversation....not just sex talk.
Some would cam and some sent pics. But I found that universally most didn't want to see pics of my cock, at least at first. Women are wired a lot different than men and they are wonderful because of it. I love talking to an intelligent woman who enjoys good conversation.
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Posted on 2017-05-19 02:23 AM
Admulc
117 posts since 2017-05-17
54 year old heterosexual male
Yes I agree with most guys who've already commented. My ex-wife (yes ex-wife) cam'd with various guys a while ago but she found the following;
- Guys were too busy jerking off to talk,
- Ordered her into stupid positions,
- Disappeared as soon as they came,
- Shared her images when she didn't do what they wanted.
You don't have to cam with a woman to get off. Finally, there's a fantasy element for women which involves anonymity.
Male who's into stroking off to MILFS and other sluts
