Wondering. I find JO buddies here and there as I travel for work and also cam, never found anyone who had a wife or gf giving a pass on her guys enjoying harmless jack with a buddy. Would be unusual of course. Curious if anyone out here ever has jacked with a friend and the wife just puttered in the kitchen or whatever and was cool with it. Or a female roommate or friend who know and saw and didn't care one way or another. I'd find that so hot.

My current wife wouldn't be at all pleased although she's happy for me to masturbate when the urge takes me. My first wife was also fine with me masturbating, but she also was okay about me wanking with my best friend wanked I won't go into the long story of how this situation arose but it began before I was married when we had 4somes and 3sums, and continued after.
I had an old 8mm projector, and my friend turned up at our flat with a porno film he'd bought. He and I sat down to watch it while my wife was making coffee in the kitchen. It wasn't at all long before I said I needed to get my cock out, which I did, and so did my friend. My wife came back with our coffee to find us with our cocks sticking out of our jeans and wanking each other. It was no big deal to her, and in fact she liked it.
Some times we had sex sessions where my wife told me and my friend what to do to each other. We would wank each other when ordered to, and suck each other's cock, but we drew the line when she told one of us to fuck the other. Instead we took turns to fuck her, so we all came out winners.
A few years later he got married and moved far away and that was the end of my wank-bud days.

Yes, my wife is ok with it. I am bi and she is also aware of that. This August we will be married for 25 years and she has known that I am bi since our first date. I ha e a jack off/suck buddy and she is completely ok with it. She knows she simply isn't equipped with a penis and it is part of who I am as a bi man that I want to stroke and suck a guy.

she does.enjoy fucking me.with her strap on dildo though. She is an.amazing woman and I love her. I do not fuck around with a bunch of guys. No blow and.go here. I have one buddy who I know very well and I trust. I do not want to bring an STD home to her so no risky one time sex hookups for me.

I haven't done it yet but mrs is ok with the idea

That would be great! On Saturday morning my wife asks me, "Honey can you mow the lawn?" I say, "Sorry sweetie, my friend jack is coming over for football." She says OK with a wink. A few minutes later Jack arrives and we lock the bedroom door and have a fun afternoon. Then I play with my wife the next night. Sounds like a fantasy to me!

Yes my wife finds it a turn on and she loves male on male.

My wife saw me stroke and suck a dick before we were married. Sometimes she would be nude, jilling as she watched a bud and I pleasuring each other and sometimes she would be doing other things around the house but she always knew what I was up to when a bud came over.
She also said she had some of her best orgasms while watching me sucking a dick and taking a mouthful of man juice.
Present gf is also into watching me and my buds having our fun together.

Mine has no problem with it..just regular guy play in her eyes...keeps her from having to do any extra work from her boyfriends...she keeps me cucked and looks at it as her little [email protected]

Not exactly that, but my best friend gave me permission to fuck his wife.

What did she say about that?

They made the decision together. We had actually had a threesome (they initiated it) where she blew us both, then the next day he sent me a text saying it was ok with him for me to see her alone as long as I told him about it first. She and I met a few times at their place, and it was very awesome. She is extremely multi-orgasmic, something I had never experienced. She kept me hard sucking and fucking for nearly 3 hours one time. I can't count how many times she came during that time.
My friend died suddenly a little over a year ago, and I still go see his wife every couple of months for a great session. I think she would like for it to be more often!