Is there anyone else into this? Not the violent types.
More into the idea of being upstaged and bullied in front of my GF or women.

From being cut out of conversation when a guy hits on my GF at a bar, and then seeing her "getting a lift" with her new buddy. To being held down like a weakling by a stud who wants to make me look like a wimp...stripping me off my clothes as I try to stop him like a weakling. Stripping me butt naked at my place in front of my GF and her friends.

I love to imagine being marginalized in front of her. Love to imagine meeting a guy who finds out I am a secret cuck and wimp so would mentally bully me to make the introduction to my GF so he can go about making her his friends with benefits.
Having to set up dates with her and have to inform him so he can join in and then slowly plant the seed to make her his fuck buddy.

Is there anybody into this as well or would be the guy who would be the type to make another mans GF his FWB? Making her your casual sex buddy even though she has a BF. Engineering it to bully and make the wimp make the introductions so you can steal her from him?

Added my ym if you want to chat on there.

There are a lot of strange things people do--I have some of my own--but this one baffles me. Can anyone explain it? Is the "pleasure" in getting other people to think or discuss being humiliated--as a sort of power trip on the part of the Person who claims to like it?

Sort of like saying: "I love to stick cotton balls of alcohol up my butt" so others will try it?


I know this may cause a firestorm, but hey, it's my opinion:

In 2014 men are no longer men, but wimps. Most won't lead in marriage or family or work or the nation. Women want to to feel safe and want men who are strong leaders. But now women are "liberated" which means free to no longer be a women, but to unnaturally act like a man. They have lost womanhood. Men have lost manhood. The Western world now celebrates this and hails it a victory.

So, women (emotional creatures who like to be protected) find a new way to submit to men. And so many men who are already wimpy womanish pussies act like women and lead the way in being submissive. The whole thing has turned into this sick, twisted, fake thing we call "humiliation" Bullying" "Sadism" "bondage" etc. We have lost authentic sexuality, we have traded a $100 for a dime in sex and with big eyes say what we have found something better.

So in the end we are back at a worse place than we started. And we claim it's for sexual pleasure. Freud was wrong. The most powerful drive isn't sex. It's the spirit in the heart of men and women and that spirit can' be stopped--however the influence of its drive can be turned into terribly twisted behavior.

If this seems like a troll post then ignore it. But maybe it's worth thinking about. Share your views--but, respectfully. I am a man.

I can't clarify why this is a turn on but like OP I find this highly arousing. The thought of another man taking my woman while I stand there impotent to stop him is a real turn on.

Yes I agree UkMids43.

it is hard to explain but such a turn on for me too.

Thanks for not being a troll Tinker, but I get where you are coming from.
Most men (and women I feel) wouldn't be into this stuff. So its hard to imagine why it would be a turn on.

Personally for me its because of my GF having a very outgoing, social personality but is kind of traditional about sex. To go out to a bar, chat to 5 guy, 10 girls making friends all round is something normal to her. She may know some of the men are hitting on her but will always play it off as innocent.
So she is very social but ask her about a 1 night stand and she thinks its a very bad idea and never has had 1 or wants to. When she was in between BFs even before me, hooking up and making out with a hot guy at a club was exciting but always felt slutty and guilty after, scared her friends would think shes the atypical club "skank". I was even there to notice 1 of those random hook ups (think thats how it all started for me)

Since sex/fooling around is a guilt trip for her but deep down, I know she has a wild side in her. She just doesn't want to let it out. so for her to flip it all around and turn into a classy, sexy stud chasing slut. Would be a major turn on and from there I guess its a short stop before it turns into humiliation at me.

Just my 2 cents

Or you could simply see it as freeing the individual from increasingly invalid and unnecessary gender stereotypes that are an anachronism in the 21st century western world. When I was young, men were real men, they worked hard in physically demanding jobs, they drank hard with their mates, then they took what was left of their pay home and gave their wives and kids a damn good beating to show what real tough guys they were, or because that's what real men do, or because they were incapable of expressing their emotion any other way. Freud wasn't wrong, but not everyone is comfortable accepting what they think he was talking about.

True.

I guess there are a lot of philosophical/sociological inputs on this subject.

But I was mainly posting to chat to others who are into this stuff, love a good mic chat on skype or yahoo about my GF.
Everything from seeing her go from dressing classy sexy to her dressing like a 18 yr old club tease. Making me jealous and horny knowing shes busy clubbing every weekend.

And having a close buddy who is basically her friends with benefits. When they are in the mood she can't say no. keeping me as the wimp BF around. But fucking him because he slams her brains out of her head from his cock and fucking skills.

So PM me if you are into this. Love to be verbally humiliated on mic chat about her.

I'm not so much into the physical bullying part, but as someone with a smaller cock, I'd love to see my wife have a hung stud fuck her while she confesses to me how my small cock can't compare. I'm very self conscious about my cock, but for some reason I'm turned on beyond belief when my wife tells me how small I am.

MMMMM!

Yes. To have her admit to you that shes always wanted a man with a bigger cock. You can be the provider in the relationship, the good BF/husband, but when it comes to getting her pussy stuffed.
She needs a hung stud who knows how to work his tool till she sees white from cumming too hard.

I would love it if he knew she was just in it for the sex, and would use her as rough as he wanted. Knowing she'd come back for more cause her pussy was dying for another fuck constantly. Going for dinner and a movie with me, and going off to "sleep" when shes really going to his place to get her brains fucked stupid from her FWB.

Yep...that's what I'm talking about.

Oh yes!! Love it!!

If anyone wants to chat to me about her send me a PM on here or on ym.
Love to chat to bullies and master types..nothing hotter than sharing my fantasies and scenarios about her over mic chat.

What you are describing is CUCKOLDING, somethings called COCKOLDING.
Google it....

I am into this wimpyguy, if you or others want to chat, hit me up.

It's very erotic. Cuckolding isn't always right to my fantasies. I usually prefer more the bully humiliation aspect.

I'm very much into cuckolding and wish my wife would cuck me. She won't, but it's a big turn on for me.

Like I said above, don't want to be bullied, but do enjoy being humiliated by the truth. I'd love to see my wife fucked by a hung stud and hear her tell me how much bigger he is and how good it feels in her pussy. I'd love to watch him make her cum over and over while she tells him how much better he is than me.

She seldom fucks me, so someone should be enjoying her sweet pussy.

I have fantasized being humiliated by a group of horny woman as they degrade me into performing gross acts and humiliate me afterwards.