Now I do not consider myself gay, because I like girls and want to marry and stuff, but I get really turned on by the idea of messing around with a fit older guy. I'm 20 and I am wondering if there is other guys my age that are like me in this aspect and if there are any older guys of that description that mess with younger guys.

Well, I do consider myself gay, and I've found that I have a certain attraction for older men. The idea of attracting a sophisticated, handsome man maybe double my age is a turn on, and I've had some very satisfying chats with older men.

Now here's a thread worth reading!

I am gay (du'oh!) and I have always had partners younger than myself. Though, I find men of all ages and looks attractive and sexual. (I would not rule out an older man as a lover/boyfriend either for then it is more about what clicks on several levels.) A sex partner is kewl at whatever age they are, if they are aware, open, expressive and know what they want and how to get it!

I am always happy to just talk to younger dudes here and of course totally happy to reciprocate with those that want more. Sophisticated, handsome, fun, younger looking, who takes care of his body, face and overall image - yep, that would be me. (Oh and single too - so no complications!)

Cya
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I'm with you here, Perkins... love to have sex or cam2cam with guys my age or younger or older than me... as long as they respect themselves, their body and mine.

Onan

It will be interesting to see how things work out for the baby boomers. Now I can appreciate the term "Dirty Old Man". If we exercise and eat wisely, we can still be hot as we get older. It takes some hard work to keep it, though.

Wow, I gave up on sex after 30. I assumed I would have to hire an escort to be my jerkoff buddy. Problem is, masturbation and porn have kept me focusing on the hot 18-25 year old guys. Yeah, I am the ultimate "Dirty Old Man". Don't worry kids, I am curious and plan to stay that way to the grave.

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I'm a 41 year old gay man and am into guys older than myself. I think there's a long historical tradidion of mentoring and supporting a younger and less experienced sexual partner in the male gay community. In my experience so far older men are more open to experimentation and willing to accommodate younger guys who are interested in experimenting. I particularly enjoy being masturbated by older men as they often have a more leisurely approach to working a cock and will take their time to build up stimulation and excitement. As a 41 year old I am happy to play with someone half my age if that's what he wants.

The term "older" can be confusing. How exactly does one define "older"? I prefer "seasoned" instead. For some, there is nothing sexier than a seasoned man. Such men are often more self-assured having survived failures and celebrated successes and they demonstrate confidence and wisdom. They seem more connected to the passions that make us all feel alive. These qualities can often bring a unique and satisfying quality to a relationship regardless how casual.

Indy

That's what I've found too which is why I prefer much older guys to get naked with and play with our cocks together.

There is a lot to be said for a "mentoring" program. Whether you are supposedly straight Gay or in-between, mentoring can be beneficial to both parties.

I'm all for anyone appreciating the effort I put into staying fit...if he happens to be younger, I'm not gonna complain

I suppose at 57 I am now in the catagory of "older men". But when I was much, much younger, one of my first experiences with sex with an older man named Charles showed me the truth of what you have written above. He was in his late 60's I think and had lived and enjoyed a gay lifestyle since he had been very young. I was (and still consider myself to be) primarily heterosexual.

My first encounter with him took place in his apartment. It just barely involved a sort of sexual subtrifuge to kindle my interest in male to male sexual contact- He claimed to be able to read a person's palm in order to tell if he was inclined to enjoy sex in some form with another male. Well, I "bite" and allowed him to read my palms. Just the contact of his hands and fingers with my palms, and knowing what he was "supposedly" trying to determine about me was enough to make me get hard. My dick was pointed downward and I kept having to adjust myself with my legs to try to allow my erection to grow unimpeded. No doubt he noticed, but he never let on.

He eventually announced, while looking me directly in the eye, that I was "more gay than nature intended". I demured, maintaining my totally heterosexual interest. He just smiled and told me that I was missing out on half the fun of sex. I left his apartment soon there after but returned a few days later out of a consuming interest in what he had meant when he had said I was missing out on half of the fun of sex.

For the sake of brevity, let me just say here that Charles showed me just how powerful an orgasm one older man can cause another youner man to experience. While I must admit that it was a very sensual experinece, I must also say that Charles accomplished this with a sense of dignity and grace both for himself and for me. I left his apartment that night with no feelings of denigration or embarrassment and yet I was sexually drained. Indeed, I suspect that Charles had drained every drop of cum from my young body that night, having used a combination of massage, masturbation, oral stimulation, and prostate massage.

I have enjoyed many truly satisfying sexual encounters since that time, and while some may have approached that one with Charles, I don't believe any surpassed it.

No doubt Charles exited this earthly existance a number of years ago but I wonder even now how many other young men experienced the sexual wonders that this man was capable of providing.

hi. i'm bi. i guess i like younger guys as it reminds me of when i was experimenting with other guys as a teen. i love to chat about early sexual experiences, especially about guys with other guys for this reason.

well i am 50 curious, but the younger guys seem hotter to me, seem like the are harder and more fun