I am 32 and married and discovered this site about a year ago when my wife was pregnant and wasn't getting much. I really enjoy chatting and jerking with others but feel I am addicted now. After a long session I always feel guilty and bad mainly about the fact that I just wasted several hours when I have all kinds of others things that need to be done or stayed up all night and lost several hours of sleep that I needed. I know everyone comes here to jerk off but if there is anyone out there like me that wants to try to quit or reduce the time spent online, drop me a message. Or if you know any other good ways to stop or any support groups or anything like that.

Simple answer: no, I don't want to quit - ever! Enjoy it too much.

As a recovering Catholic familiar with guilt, a few suggestions to proffer. 1.) Not all sessions need to be the same in nature or duration. See how brief you can make a few sessions, especially when busy. 2.) Do try to go a few days at a time without. It's not the same as quitting and will demonstrate to you an ability to delay and time appropriately. 3.) create opportunities to have the sorts of sessions you enjoy most now that you've found time control on (1) and biological control on (2).

Oh, dear, I know what you mean about wasting hours! It really is not desirable. I'd suggest PM'ing congenial people rather than chatting, which can be a terrific waste of time. Then you look at the PMs and respond when you get good and ready. Also, let the pressure build up between times, then ejaculate quick if necessary and get on with your life. Do not try for multiple orgasms in a single session. And, if your wife isn't pregnant just now, would more sex with her have any tendency to combat the jerkoff addiction?

never will I stop to nice

I'm an addicted jacker, but I set limits and exercise control.

If my wife is gone, those rules are suspended and I'm going to be naked and jerking.

That wife gets up at 5:45a every weekday morning. I jack from 5:45a to 7am weekdays. At 7am, I shoot my load and start my day. On Saturday I jack for about 1.5-2 hours. Sunday I typically have to get up before my wife so I take it as an off day.

When I travel for business I typically strip naked as soon as I hit the hotel room and I masturbate for HOURS. Yes, even missing sleep to do it. I love it!

I have no desire to stop and have been masturbating daily since I was 9 or 10yo.

I have no desire to quit at all. As far as im concerned im doing nobody no harm and its not harmful to myself either. I do get the point about wasting hours wanking when you have a free house or whatever but as long as the housework is done and the garden is tidy im good. You rarely hear people complaining about wasting time watching t.v which is what you'd probably be doing if you weren't wanking. As soon as i get a day off work without the wife im the same as the other guys, naked as soon as she leaves and wanking for hours, sometimes with several screens going at the same time.

If there are other things that need to be done, do them and treat your wank session as a reward.

As for me, quit wanking? No way!

Its always amazed me how the time goes when having a good edging session over pics and chatting. Not done for a while but used to regularly go from 10pm through to 3am many nights a week. Irs like once the horny fun kicks in time means nothing lol

Used to get the "guiltys" too, mainly afterwards. Especially back in the day. But as I've gotten older, who cares - its just sex. I've been a daily stroker for eons now, 1-2x, these days 1 session usually suits my needs just fine. I'm a morning stroker so I get the task out of the way first thing.

Have tried a few times before, mostly due to wasted time, plus jacking uses a lot of energy I could be otherwise using better.

Find it very difficult though and generally relapse because I enjoy it so much.

If you're trying to quit maybe try NoFap on Reddit

Why would anyone want to quit jackingoff? Feel guilty?...Hell no, how can you feel guilty about something that feels so good?

It all comes down to how horny you feel. Sometimes i can go 2 or 3 days without having a wank, then there's days when i have about 3 wanks in one day that can last several hours. It's not so much an addiction it's just a habit.

Really good advice, remember this even if you don't need it now -- you might some day. Anyone can skip days when you're too busy, but making yourself skip an opportunity is something you have to learn.

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