This is for both the guys and dolls to answer.

How many of you have had (or have given) a Lingham massage or a Yoni Massage? You may answer with as much or as little detail as you wish.

Well, my Dear one...most people I sense, give a massage of sensual natures to receive something in return. Maybe not in the first five minutes, but then they begin deverting their attention to their own physical reactions, away from the Yoni (woman) or Lingam (man). Sex is all about submission, releasing and trust...there are wonderful opportunities to experience new choices with this kind of touch sensuality. For those who have performing issues this can be a way to reset their usual patterns that are connected to disappointments. For those who do not it is a way to initiate a heightened level of anticipation. The main idea is to forget yourself for a moment and concentrate on the other, and releasing the busy noise in the head of what am I going to get from this. For a moment get in the moments of what can I do to please him or her. It is very intoxicating to submit to the other this way. The ego goes right out the door. Taking a break from wanting to control..."What can I do...to "How can I please the other?" can be very interesting for a change.
It's all good!
Alistoria~

I've been hoping to find a woman for mutual massage but so far I haven't found one. Massage parlors are ok but lack the real intimacy I crave. Meanwhile I enjoy any other intimate activity with a woman including cam to cam and role playing.