am i gay? bi? does it matter?

It will only matter if you enjoyed it!

Seriously, you shouldn't attach a label to it...for me, it's about the pleasure I'm bringing to my bud...and myself. I really love sucking cock.

Do you want a guy o blow you? Don't get hung up with labels. If you want it got for it, trust me you'll like it.

If you let a guy blow you - you got off, you enjoyed it, he enjoyed it (most guys who suck cock do so because they really enjoy it and are good at it because of that) It means nothing man, labels are BS. You're a guy, I'm a guy, guys like sex, getting off feels good, we're created to be sexual beings. Nothing more, nothing less. So you take a bj, you either enjoy it or you don't. If you do, then you have some decisions to make about what you do it again? If you don't, then you move on and you never have to wonder if you'd enjoy it or not. You'll never know unless you try, and you're obviously curious (most of us are but never admit it, at least you took that step.) Besides, no one will know it even happened but the two of you... it's your secret. No biggie, right? Think about it - I'm more than willing to chat in PM and share my story, I'd even have some suggestions about how you might find the right guy to help with that! Do keep us posted

Oh and by the way man.... WOW that's a nice cock!

I agree...nice cock!!

Also agree on the blow job. If you want head and find a guy who enjoys sucking cock, go for it!

Surely it would be better to have a guy suck me off than wanking myself ... have my hands free too .. Phil

Having a guy suck you off is awesome. I have had 6 different guys suck my cock in the last month...I love it. So, drop your cock into a guys mouth and enjoy it.

If you fuck a Fleshlight, does that make you plastic?

definitely .YES

I don't think you have anything to be worried about. Only if your sexually excited about other guys and want to do more with them than just sucking each other's hard cocks. I myself was 8 years old when I sucked a neighbor buddies cock, back then we called them our weiners or peters, things have sure changes, but I have had my care share of sucking and being sucked and I think of myself as bi-sexual so I guess it's something that can change in a flash but just enjoy yourself and let the good fun times go.

Dude...if anyone is willing to blow you a mouth is a mouth. Go for it. You would lonly be gay if you had romanntic feelings for the dude.

Doesn't really matter..If you are still fucking women guess it makes you bi but in the end it's just a label and means nothing...

If you were close to Washington DC, I wouldn't care what you call yourself, except happy and content!

Yeah, nice cock throbbin!!! I'd blow you any day, AND ALL day!!!!