I've been beating my meat for abouut 57 years (I'm 70 now). I've always been able to cum pretty quickly, maybe 2 - 3 minutes. I've also been able to edge for hours when I just want to enjoy a long ride. As I watch guys on Chaturbate some seem to have to work very hard in order to cum. I'm not talking about the edgers who can drag it out for hours, I'm talking about the guys who have made their goal or are just trying to get off. Some of them beat their meat frenetically for a long time before they cum.
I'd be interested to know what's normal. Is it really difficult to cum under some circumstances even if you want to and are mentally ready? Even at my age I can still have it both ways.
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Posted on 2014-10-24 08:26 PM. Last edited by enis on 2014-10-30 12:08 AM. (1 edits total)
62 here. Average is 15 to 20 min though I can stretch or compress it.
67 and don't have to hurry for anything anymore...specially to come.
15 to 20 minutes, fucking or getting a bj...as long as I want when I'm edging.
15 to 20 minutes, fucking or getting a bj...as long as I want when I'm edging.
I'd really like to hear from some of the younger guys too.
With jerking, I can cum after a long time or short time depending on what I'm watching or how aggressive I stroke.
Can you just decide to cum and then do it?
anywhere from 5 to 30 min, depending on how much time i have
Posted on 2014-10-25 05:09 AM. Last edited by jackmasterg on 2014-10-25 05:11 AM. (2 edits total)
If I'm in a hurry I can usually knock one out in about 5 minutes. If there is no rush I usually like to slow stroke it for about an hour. If I have the house to my self for the day, I'll get my wife's dildos out (or my private stash) and masturbate for hours. When I do it's not about the ejaculations, it's more about the waves of pleasure that keep coming internally back to back. They are so much stronger as I keep fucking myself and stroking my cock and balls. When I do finally ejaculate, it's so incredible! And I usually eat all my cum. Also since practicing yoga I can now lick my entire cock head and on a good day I can suck most of the head just not quite the entire head yet but I will get there soon I am sure!
If it feels good...it is good.
Usually like to edge for a few hours, maybe up to three; and with the build-up of sensations just as intense as the orgasm.
I've been a chronic masturbator for most of my life. When I was in my teens I jerked 3 times a day. Now that I'm in my 40's I do it daily, and seldom miss a day.
I'm convinced that my cock being somewhat desensitized combined with frequent ejaculation, is why I've never been a fast cummer. Even when I was a teen it would take me 20-30 minutes to cum. If I was fucking and pounding it really fast and hard I could get off faster, but it was hard work.
I prefer to slowly stroke my cock and let the orgasm happen in it's own time. I don't hold it back or try to cum. If I do that, it can take 45 minutes to over and hour for me to cum.
I'm convinced that my cock being somewhat desensitized combined with frequent ejaculation, is why I've never been a fast cummer. Even when I was a teen it would take me 20-30 minutes to cum. If I was fucking and pounding it really fast and hard I could get off faster, but it was hard work.
I prefer to slowly stroke my cock and let the orgasm happen in it's own time. I don't hold it back or try to cum. If I do that, it can take 45 minutes to over and hour for me to cum.
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These are great responses...anyone else want to join in?
On average, it takes my about 10-20 minutes. Sometimes, if I'm not feeling it, it takes forever. Sometimes, if I'm really horny, maybe just a couple of minutes. I've spent upwards of an hour jacking off and watching porn, when I build up almost to climax, and then back off. I repeat this any number of times until I've had enough and I'm ready to squirt. I guess this is what guys mean when they talk about "edging."
depends on how soon I get to the girl with the big tits!
When I was young usually within a few minutes, nowadays with some exciting porn or a great nasty fantasy I'd guess between 15-30 minutes.
old long time jacker who loves anal with woman only
Posted on 2014-10-25 08:47 PM. Last edited by Ipad3 on 2014-10-25 08:49 PM. (1 edits total)
On, now very rare, occasions when my wife takes me by surprise and grabs me when I wake up, I can cum in under a minute. If I'm really in the mood when this happens, the pleasure can be quite intense. If I'm not, the orgasm feels weak and watery.
When I'm flying solo - most of the time - I can go for a quickie or take some time. Average would be around 5 to 10 minutes. If Im edging to porn or using my electric toothbrush as a cock head vibrator (highly recommended), I can stay "airborne" for over an hour. During this "flight," I can experience waves of mini orgasms, almost, but not quite, orgasms, but very pleasurable. When I finally blow, the feeling goes very deep into my pelvis and up into my back and shoulders. At its most intense, for just a few seconds, I feel as though I'm in some very deep state of, well, I'm not sure what. But I know I have to keep going back there, time after time. Always hoping for more. Never satisfied for long.
I've tried to get this close when I'm making love, or even just fucking, but nothing rivals the place I can fleetingly visit when I cum on my own.
When I'm flying solo - most of the time - I can go for a quickie or take some time. Average would be around 5 to 10 minutes. If Im edging to porn or using my electric toothbrush as a cock head vibrator (highly recommended), I can stay "airborne" for over an hour. During this "flight," I can experience waves of mini orgasms, almost, but not quite, orgasms, but very pleasurable. When I finally blow, the feeling goes very deep into my pelvis and up into my back and shoulders. At its most intense, for just a few seconds, I feel as though I'm in some very deep state of, well, I'm not sure what. But I know I have to keep going back there, time after time. Always hoping for more. Never satisfied for long.
I've tried to get this close when I'm making love, or even just fucking, but nothing rivals the place I can fleetingly visit when I cum on my own.
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