Have you ever thought about someone, other than your partner during sex? I mean really tried to pretend like it was someone else?

Of course. My wife doesn't touch me the way I need so while we are together and I'm trying to satisfy her I imagine she's someone else. Usually the most recent hot girl I saw in a store or some other place.

Yes often

In all honesty, no. When I'm wanking alone - now that's a different story!

yes on a regular basis, sometimes I imagine a third in the mix too.

Oh yeah. My wife is really boring in bed. She has a great pussy, but she just lays there. Usually no dirty talk or anything. Sometimes I have a hard time cumming unless I think about something else.

After years of marriage, we finally figured out it works better if we just masturbate together. My wife's vibrator gets her off like crazy, and she gets really into it. Moaning and making noises. That in turn gets me off.

I have tried, but my mind always comes back to the moment. I fantasize about other people all the time when I'm not having sex, but it just doesn't work for me while I'm doing it.

At least try to use a girl's name when you're fucking a girl and a boy's name when you're fucking a boy. It would be weird to be fucking a girl and call her John or a guy and call him Helen or something. Although these things happen, I'm sure....

A wise man once said to me that your partner can be anyone you want them to be in the dark.