It's really hard for guys to admit to each other that they want to jack off because they have to remove clothing and expose their penis. Society has done a number on everyone with labels etc. Most guys out there would if you could get close enough through friendship. It's a very natural and normal thing but locating a guy receptive to it is tricky. I have the same problem.

Many more are willing on the internet mode but to me it's not the same.

Things are getting better as more and more guys are not afraid to play, in time we'll get there.
The best thing is find a guy you like develop a friendship and offer situations that my be conducive to it and see what happens. Close friends will talk more intimately and that's a better start than just blurting it out.

Don't worry there's a buddy out there who wants the same thing.

Its sometimes difficult to find someone compatible that has the common interest and who grooves on you. I had such a friend and it was amazing. Couldn't wait to get our pants unzipped to suck each other. Shared our stories and our women. it was a blast. good luck to you.

I can see me and a guy unzipping each other and reaching for those cocks. Erections need air !

So sad...I am shedding a tear.

I've met up with a few guys and always had a great time jacking with them. I always chatted or exchanged several emails first, being really clear about only wanting to jack off and maybe jack each other.

It's worked out good... Every time so far I've felt comfortable to get naked with them right away and start enjoying some porn. Its a lot of fun hanging out naked and watching porn while chatting about past sex experiences.

I haven't had a lot of luck either. guys want to see pics which I don't blame them I want to see who im chatting with to, but im a big guy with a small dick, and im hairy.

Since I'm mostly into girls, it doesn't matter to me if my jacking bud has a big dick or not. I'm hairy too, so that doesn't bother me, either.

We'll fellow I don't really think it matters about what we have between our legs to play with, the sharing of stories and or pix's. It's the fact we are have an interest in just about the same things, get hard cocks sharing the joy it brings and finding a friend to make that likes these same joys.
Since I have been an active member of J/C I have meet just for chat none in person some might fine fellow jackers. Building up a trust and a bonding friendship is something you do as time goes along, being honest is the only way to achieve that. Once your bonding time begins the friendship will develop .

Yeah, it's hard to meet someone if you are a quiet person like I am. I would really like to find someone to jerk off with. I like taking off my clothes with other people and being naked. And it seems like most other guys that are aggressive enough to do things want to do a lot more than jerk off together. I could see myself getting to know someone and easily jerking him off too and having him jerk me off too. And maybe even later sucking each other. I like jerking off on cam with others and I always cum off. I am not the type to edge for a long time, because once I start jerking off. I get so horny I want to cum badly. It just feels so good and I know how great it will feel to cum off.