I'm curious about something. For as long as I can remember I have always fantasized about having a penis. I am so jealous that guys have something to stroke and can shoot cum. I often fantasize about having a penis and masturbating with it. I guess this is penis envy I don't know. Sometimes I fantasize about meeting a girl and we masturbate together and role play with me being a guy and masturbating a penis as she masturbates with me. Do any other women ever think about this? Just curious.

I can testify first-hand that having a penis is indeed a very cool thing. It does, however, have disadvantages. To begin with there's the fact that you can't disguise being turned on. This is a real problem if you're trying to conceal what you're thinking. Secondly, ejaculation is a real pain. Unless you don't mind where it goes, you have to consider how you're going to clean up after an orgasm. If you've ever seen the film There's Something About Mary then you'll know what I mean. Thirdly, external genitalia are open to trauma from blunt objects (e.g. poorly-aimed footballs, flung fists, etc). This is definitely a source of perpetual worry. Finally, and perhaps most importantly, women can have multiple orgasms whereas a man's ejaculation leaves him sexually incapacitated.

In short, having a vagina is discreet, clean and safe. I think you'd regret having a penis after a while.

I am a woman but really get turned on by a shemale, ie. a good looking woman but with a hardon. I frequently masturbate to that fantasy.

me too. ive had sex with a shemale and it was really hot. women should have penises. being able to jerk off and shoot a hot load of cum is the greatest sexual experience, i think.

I have fantasized about it often, I would like to have one sometimes, even I would not change it for my vagina, but I find penis extremely good looking! She males? I fantasize about a she male and a bi man.

Yes; I often think of my clitoris as a penis and like to treat it like one (humping, jacking, etc.) I have intense desires to shoot cum and to pee from my shaft.

I would also like to add that there are also some other factors too like what men don't like to talk about and that is E D or erectile dysfunction do to health problems like diabetis or high blood preshure or both a big bummer even with the meds out there is still a turn off.also factors like stress and so forth.Haveing the toilet seat drop on it is a real pain

I don't have a penis. I don't want a penis either one of my own or one in me, up me, or squirting in my direction. I don't fantasize about penises, not even about castrating knives or any of that stuff. I foresee the future as a penis-free world when reproduction takes place through eggs fertilized by tissue from oneself (cloning) or another woman. Go on. Hit me!!!! But you won't change my mind.

Larissa

Larissa,
Very good point. As a male, I have seen this end also. I have tried to find another use. I now vacuum, cook, clean, wash, play sexual pet all for her. She works and supports me. I sunbathe and try to find ways to care for her. Oh, and when I shoot, it is usually all over my chest. She stays nice and clean, if not, then I make sure she is licked clean. I guess to say, just that, a real man is more than just a penis, we have other functions as well.. Cool day to ya...

Ho ohdean!

Do I hear you right? "Apart from his penis, a real man is actually a girl." Or am I putting words into your mouth?

Larissa

well with smaller tits, maybe.

As a Male I can't disagree with this statement more. Men have penises, and women have vaginas. That's the way it should be. Being a male it IS NOT a disadvantage having a penis. Who cares if someone sees you with a hard on? That's what it is for. Ejaculation is even less of a problem than peeing and both men and women have to worry about where to pee, but that doesn't seem much of a problem as we do it several times a day. Genitalia are "open to trauma from blunt objects" SO WHAT????? So are eyes, ears, noses, fingers, toes. THAT IS LIFE. If you are male be proud of it, don't condemn it.
I agree, women sometimes wonder what it would be like to have a penis, and men wonder what having tits and a pussy is like, but the should not be ashamed of what they have.
Flaunt it, that's what I say.

One thing, I don't know what an orgasm feels like to a woman, but for men the liquid feeling, coming hot viscous liquid is a big part of orgasm (mine, anyway) I think that's why we're always talking about "big loads" etc. Maybe that's what started this thing about female ejaculation, women wanting to experience that, too.

What would be your reaction to a good looking female hermaphrodite? (That's a woman born with a vagina and a penis)

Personally, I wouldn't even think of hitting you, but I can't help thinking that you must have had bad experiences with men. Come on, penises are as necessary and OK as vaginas. It's all meant to be. If you disagree (and you seem to), then go and tell God that he/she should have done his/her job better.