Any suggestions? I have reached a point where I have extreme difficulty achieving a climax. It takes a long time of horribly violent jacking to get there. I would cut my throat to have premature ejaculation problems. Anyone know of any remedies?

have sex lol

Let me tell you to enjoy your young years now and don't waste them because in fewer years than you want to think about you'll start to feel older than you ever thought you would feel. Oh, by the way, you won't actually be old, you'll just feel that way. It can sneak up on you, like a brick wall when you're not looking where you're walking.

So to the original poster, I feel for you. I have never had premature ejaculation issues and I wish I had, and so does my wife, because sex might be satisfying for me if I could actually cum during intercourse. As it is I'd rather just masturbate alone than have sex. I love my wife and love eating her pussy but she gets sore or dries out long before I ever even feel close to cumming while we are fucking.

An old girlfriend called me the black-hole of sex, meaning there was nothing to be done to make me cum. Now that sounds like what dreams are made of, being able to fuck forever but I get tired and sore too from all that friction, and nothing to show for it except when I masturbate until I'm done.

So you could try Viagra or something like it but that doesn't help me cum, although I do last longer than without it at this point.

Good luck.

Yes i have also had this problem,now that the missus has gone through the Menopause,she,s 55 & still hot,but when we Shag she also ends up dry which in turn makes it harder for me to Climax as i feel pressured into having to cum so the sensation seems to fade,also i hold my breath whilst pounding her so as to concentrate to bring my self of but alas its not to be.I find Masturbation is the way but even then im jackin to kingdom come lol so ive got this routine where as i tend to massage my Prostate Gland get a fair amount of Ejaculate out & use that as Lube while leaving my massager up my ass i can then squeeze it against my Gland which in turn brings me to Ejaculation.End of.

This term for this, I believe, is "anorgasmia."

If you speak with a doctor about it, he's going to pass off on you (if he's got any) a few samples of some vasodilator: Cialis, Viagra, or some such. He'll tell you if it works, come back for a scrip; if it doesn't, come back and try another one.

On your own, you might try this, something that has helped me. Be aware of your breathing. Breathe deeply, especially through your nose.

You may say you're already doing that. If you pay attention, though, you may notice that you will hold your breath sometimes for some period while having sex, solo or other.

I seem to recall Betty Dodson recommending to inhale through the nose, exhale through the mouth. You, of course, want to do with without sounding like a wind tunnel or a Hollywood pervert. But it's doable.

Dryness in an older female partner can be the problem or contribute to it. I know Mrs. Sithon ***felt*** wet. She was wet. But it turns out I figured out after years of frustration that, while, yes, she was wet, she wasn't as wet as she had been and she sure wasn't wet enough for my purposes.

The drying out happens over years, decades, and it's so subtle that you may not notice it. I sure didn't. But I began to notice I could cum with my hand but never with her.

So try lube and plenty of it. Not just any lube will do. It needs to be both super slick and long lasting. I won't mention any brands; I'm not pumping any product. But a good quality silicone works for us. The downside to silicone lubes is you have to be careful which toys you use. You can wreck your favorite high-dollar silicone toy with a silicone lube.

Another lube that's working well is coconut oil. She takes ours and whips it in a blender. She claims it makes a difference to her. And it smells terrific. I start to get hard now just smelling coconut.

Above all, then, breathe.

Good luck.

You haven't started any new meds?

Get a prescription from your doctor, and try the 30-day free trial of Cialis for daily use. If that doesn't work, you've not spent any money on medicine other than the visit to the doctor. However, be aware that Cialis is quite expensive once you're past the 30 days.

I can achieve a rock hard erection. But I may as well be fucking with my thumb or jacking my thumb. The sensation is just not there.

I have always taken longer than normal to cum. Even as a teen I could go long enough that my GF would get sore.

I really have to try to cum if I'm in a hurry. Now, if I take my time and edge, I typically start feeling the urge to cum after an hour and a half or two hours.

I wish I could cum fast. My wife would love it too. She could care less about having sex for a long time. She gets hers and she's done, but I'm still pounding away.

skip a few days, seriously stop playing with yourself for a while, then let it blast

I order Cialis on line and it comes from India. It is 99% cheaper than what you pay at your local pharmacy. It is a "generic" and costs about $2 per pill AND IT WORKS JUST LIKE THE $30/PILLS FROM YOUR LOCAL DRUG STORE. And you do not need a scrip. If you are "hung up" on generic or foreign drugs, just remember, probably 90% of the prescription drugs you buy from you local pharmacy are made in a foreign country.
On the same site that I order my generic Cialis 20mg, you can order the BRAND NAME Cialis, which costs much more.
When my wife and I want to have sex, I will take one pill, get in the shower, shave (upper and lower), put the lube on the night stand next to me, put a XXX video in the player and wait for my sweetie to finish her shower. Normally, by the time she comes into the bedroom, I am already .

I will never forget the first time I took my scrip to my local pharmacy....it was for 10 - Cialis pills, 20 mg. I went back the next day and the clerk got my pills and said, "That will be $265.00", to which I replied, "That is fucking outrageous" LOL