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I see other men looking for a jerk off buddy
Doesn't that mean you are gay or bi?
I have no desire to watch other guys JO.
I am not homophobe, it is just not a turn on.
Am I in the wrong plac?
Where else can you suggest?

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22 posts since 2010-09-28

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Since when did it become right or wrong?

It's a preference, like coke or pepsi.
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Wrong is directed at me, not the choice.

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lupis49 Amateur Jackinchatter

277 posts since 2011-07-05
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There are a lot of Str8 guys here who like to jerk and share/chat about women without sharing cams/etc. Just be upfront about what you enjoy
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531 posts since 2008-12-11
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So, what are you here for? What are you looking for? What do you like?
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118 posts since 2012-06-09
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Rubntugfan said:
I see other men looking for a jerk off buddy
Doesn't that mean you are gay or bi?
I have no desire to watch other guys JO.
I am not homophobe, it is just not a turn on.
Am I in the wrong plac?
Where else can you suggest?


I'm with you my friend. I stopped joining the chat because of this. A lot of self proclaimed straight people here way too interested in other guys naked. If you're 100% straight, the last thing you want to see is another dude's dick. If you DO want to see that, you are simply not 100% straight. Not saying gay, just not fully straight either.

Titties all the way, the only dick I want to see is my own grin
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I am here ideally for cam to cam with Women
Picture swap with women
Video swap with women
Email flirting with women

You get the point
I wish I did get off on guys - I just dont
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As a bi guy married to a hot MILF, I can tell you definitively that you are in the wrong place if you are looking to cam, pic swap, or whatever with WOMEN. You may see a few profiles that list themselves as women, but I tend to doubt the truthfulness of those. If you are looking for a straight friend with whom to share pics of women and jack off, then you can find that. But, you will also encounter a lot of bi and gay guys that are comfortable with, and interested in, jacking together and discussing things that are clearly not of interest to you.

Based upon your statement, my opinion is that you will be uncomfortable in this forum, given the proliferation of bi and gay chat. Not to be an ass; just being honest.

I can't refer you to any specific website, since I'm not familiar with any that cater specifically to what you want. Honestly, my experience with women leads me to believe that you are looking for something that doesn't exist. Women tend to not be interested in the swapping of pics and sexual chat, and prefer a more emotional, in person experience. It may be you'll find a "woman" to chat with and enjoy that fantasy, but I suspect it won't actually be a woman.

Regardless, wish you the best of luck. Happy jacking! grin
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712 posts since 2011-04-19
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Have to toatly agree with MILFlvr70.....if your looking for a woman to chat, share pics, etc...then you are in the wrong place. As a matter of fact, I think you would be lucky to find such women on any chat site and simply because of the reasons that MILFlvr70, has given. I have a female cyber friend (And I know see is real because we cam and I have also visited her) but we met in a music chat room and things just developed from there. So good luck with what you are looking for, and don't expect to find it in a hurry!
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I'll say that such women do exist online, but most of the ones that used to frequent JackinChat have faded away. (In truth, we had a fairly significant population of women in the chat room, once upon a time. However, they normally accessed the chat through the chat server's interface rather than the one here on the site, and as a result, we lost many of them in the server move several years ago.) If I had to guess, I'd say the more boisterous, male-centric user base here is what prompted them to leave the site.

And I can think of at least one site that does have a significant female user base, but its general tone and demeanor are quite different from the one here, and has policies and processes put into place to reduce unwanted attention towards the women of the site.
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Rubntugfan said:
I see other men looking for a jerk off buddy
Doesn't that mean you are gay or bi?
I have no desire to watch other guys JO.
I am not homophobe, it is just not a turn on.
Am I in the wrong plac?
Where else can you suggest?


Just assert what you want and leave it be.

I only text chat, to pics/vids of women. I'm forward with that with everyone who contacts me. I am not bothered if they move on, if they want the A/V experience. I would rather them seek what they want.

The key in life is to not stop and worry. It is to be honest, forward and just say what you want. Eventually you'll find those who are compatible. I could care less what people say about me, or what others are. I'm very transparent, and it works out well for everyone.

I'm here because I enjoy sharing pornography with other men. I used to chat with women years ago, but being married (I only do porn because I travel), that led to some "poor situations" when women became "too attached." So I enjoy the company, text-only, of like-minded perverts.

To each his own, and I hope you find what you are looking for.
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We could better tell you whether you are in the wrong place if you describe what you do want rather than what you don't.

This is a male dominated site but quite of a few of those men are exchanging views on the desirability of various celebrity women and swapping porn.

If you were hoping to converse with women and maybe get them to turn you by what they say or by them sharing pics or video with you then good like as I think women are more reserved about doing that with strangers.

You have rightly spotted that many of the men on here acknowledge being turned on my other men masturbating. Whether those men call themselves straight (because that's where their romantic attraction lies), bi or gay is not of huge importance. If you see a thread if discussion that does not interest you just pass it over and if someone contacts you wanting to do, or talk about, things that don't interest you be honest and say so.
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I have been on perv forums of a long time now and I started jerking off at a very young age. I had always been interested in mutual, non-touching, jerk off sessions when I was younger cause the though of others getting off to the same material (ex. Porn, Celebs, Magazines) was very exciting and naughty.

I have developed a couple of good friends online and we would share links and pictures, we would mic and cam occasionally. Seeing and being watched jerking to the same thing excited me ether it female or male.

Now being older and braver, I have been to strip clubs and paid to have a show were I can jerk off in front of my dancer and I have been to porn theatres were I had mutual jerk off sessions with another guy.

I guys I am or was a bit of a exhibitionist and voyeur.

On the topic of gay/bi/str8 the most I have done as far as gay was provide and received a hand job from another guys during my movie going days.

It was fun and I enjoyed it and did it a couple times more and probably do it again if naturally happens again but I prefer pussy and sex more. Sex is fun and pleasurable, but I don't let it run my life.. and i don't think it should for anyone else regardless of your sexual preference.
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