And if you TOLD HER you were going to find someone, what would she do??? You say she won't let you but she won't also LET you fuck her either....

As young as you are, being celibate is almost cruel...You might think she is not doing anything sexually but are probably wrong...Just because she shows no desire to have sex with you doesn't mean she has no desires at all....Wake up and smell the coffee while you can....

@Shortstack....Tx for sharing your story with us...Many here understand what you're saying and feel your pain...

show4u, there is a solution that lies between fucking another woman and just stroking to porn on cam that will also get your exhibitionist side off. adult only ABS and porn theaters. lots of porn, big theater rooms, lots of people guys and gals working their stuff. I love people watching me stroke live, when I get into porn on the big screen out comes my cock, I get stroking and a group forms to watch. lots of positive comments about my cock while I'm stroking it, lots of folk drop pants or lift skirts and join in. At least once a night someone drops to their knees and begs to suck it. I love these places as you can tell. you can just chill in the background and stroke as a newbie or jump in and go for it. you never have to touch another soul if you don't want to but you can have alive audience. enjoy!

Dump your wife for a guy? Not sure about this one.

I recommend that married men without sex happening should make an appointment with me, your Masturbation Consultant. We will bring those orgasms back in a masturbatory way.

wife was influenced by the church , and sex was a dirty thing. lucky if it was twice a month , this went on for 12 years. after a while you give up trying when nearly all suggestions are rejected. Then she flips out when I met someone who wanted sex me. Whats with that??? Its control, thats what it is. Somehow we find ourselves in a culture where sex outside of the marriage, is in most western countries, grounds for divorce. Yet i see no obligation anywhere on the women to provide /allow/facilitate sex. Well fine, if she doesnt enjoy it (not everyone has to), then why cant you get it somewhere else, ffs???? Our culture and govt and law need a rethink on this nonsense, harping back to the days when the church wanted to control everything (well, they still do, actually!)

Sure, but serial masturbation is also a great fix

That's what I do. And my wife is fine with it. She has no desire for sex but knows I need it, so she doesn't say a word about my porn and jerk off addiction.