Any of you other str8/curious married guys been caught cheating? Has your wife forced you to abandon your sex ways and porn addiction? I recently have been caught and forced to go to couples therapy. Would love to hear stories from other horny married guys like me

Wife #2 found my porn stash years ago. Yep, did therapy cause she considered it cheating. Ended that relationship. Current wife knows about and encourages my porn viewing and masturbation as she thinks it keeps me interested in cumming (true), believes all my stroking has increased my size and staying power(true) and keeps my eye from wandering to other women (also true). Great gal.

wife #2 is fucking smart.

We are all the same right? If we off leash we stay home, if they put a tight leash we go fucking nuts.

Correct

Problem is I love my wife and I love married life, but I need more, so much more. I just can't get enough pussy and porn. I love the thrill.

Then bring your wife into your world. No secrets. Buy her a couple of toys. Lingerie. Lubes. My wife now drags me to the adult stores. Flirts with the sales girls. Picks out outfits. All this in front of other customers. She wears her crotchless panties around with a short skirt. Cut out bra under her t-shirt so everybody can see her nipples.

She went from somewhat demure when we first met to an adventuress tigress just because I was into eroticism.

oh wow, really that much change? I'm trying, but I've never seen girls change their sexuality that much. But then again they are all afraid to be called sluts right?

Can not get caught by her..she is a sex addict herself..we both enjoy our bodies apart and together...so...she encourages my masturbation and other forms of sexual play..!! [email protected]

Yes. Started out with her shaving her labia smooth. That was an eye opening experience for her. Then it was oral for her first time. She had never had a guy lick her pussy to orgasm before. Then it was anal. That was a major turning point. She was saying all kinds of dirty sex things while I drilled her ass that I never heard her say before. After that it was like the flood gates were open to experimentation. She just turned 48 and wishes I'd shown her the way decades ago.

EXACTLY!!!!

wife knows I like porn, knows I chat here (she found I had left the chat window open!); she doesnt know how much I wank on here - but she gets as much sex as she wants.

My wife caught me watching porn on the computer while stroking my cock. She was pissed and made me promise to not watch porn again. Well, that ain't gonna happen so I have to be more carefull and not get caught.

Are you guys seriously complaining that your wives don't want you to have sex with other women?

She caught me with a penthouse in my drawer years ago, and I wisely said I wasn't hiding it, here have a look. I know she masturbated over it at least a few times back then.

But in general sex has gotten few and far between us, and only happens when she suddenly says she wants it. She is extremely uneasy about the porn and sex trade, and of course there's good reason for that.
Now she doesn't like the idea of me masturbating or talking to ANYONE about sex, male or female -- she knows i do it and suspects I talk and is icy whenever she thinks about that. Cause & effect, her old-fashioned views have come to the surface again, looks like forever.

Couples therapy? We have done that, over bigger issues, didn't mention sex at that time.
But she wouldn't bring it up, I think she knows she would lose and the dialog would go:
Her: I don't like it if you masturbate and talk to people
Me: I'm a male, we masturbate, I'm not ready to stop just because you don't need sex very often.
Her: Well then, don't talk to other people
Me: Okay then, you talk about it with me, you're invited to join and be part of my world
Her: I don't want to do that... I just want sex, from you, when I'm ready
(so it's the same old impasse, I'll masturbate as always, thank you)

Any other older married guys in the same boat? PM me if you want.