US 'Shock-Jock' Howard Stern, love him or loathe him (usually the latter) actually made a good point once: "Men with big cocks are aloof".

In my opinion, one should first determine when a cock can be defined as "big": I'm 17cm (6.7 inches, if I'm not wrong): is it big, small, just average?

Anyway, I've never really bothered about the size of my cock, but about how much (well, how few, to be honest) pussy I've had, and how much fun I've been able to share...

The mean average is erect length of 5.1-5.7 inches so yours is above average. A broad majority fall in this mean average.

In my opinion, "big" is anything 7" or more. Yes, you can still have a big cock if you're under that, but very thick.

That's just my opinion...I also find the 5.1-5.7" average to be a little suspect. I'm 5.75" and I've seen a lot of cocks bigger than me. I'm not talking just pictures, but in person. Most guys I've been with have been well over 6". Of course, some were smaller which is where you get your average.

Wife and I have been swingers for years and I am large just under 8 inches long and 6.5 inches around. Very few of my swing partners comment on my length, but many comment on my girth.

Two girls on the college dance team I fucked in college told the rest of the team I had a big cock. It was one of the best things that ever happened to me

Feh. Media types, any of them, make these pronouncements and most people believe what they say because why? Well, they have a show; why would they have a show if they didn't know what they're talking about?

Stern conducted some kind of survey, I suppose, where he met aloof men and asked them, Hey, Aloof Guy, do you have a big cock?

Or, I don't know, maybe all the men he met with big cocks, he asked them, Hey, Mr. Big Cock, are you aloof in the day-to-day course and scope of your dealings with the world at large?

Being told you have a big cock is an ego booster for a while.

But let's remember that Stern -- or any media type -- says the shit he does simply to draw an audience.

"Does having a big dick make you less bothered about sticking it into some1?"

Why would the size of your cock dictate feeling "bothered" about sticking it in a willing partner.
If you feel "bothered" about using your dick for sex then maybe you shouldn't have one.
One should only feel bothered if using their cock on someone unwilling and in that case you shouldn't have a cock either.

Only a 4 incher here and it never bothered me to stick it in any available, wet, warm, juicey hole.

How would I know?

My dick is OK... I haven't measured it recently, but last time I did it was like 7.5 to 8.

My wife has a tiny vagina. I mean, tiny. I mean it HURTS tiny. We thought after having a kid, she'd be nice and loosened up.

We've had two, and I STILL have to do a little foreplay because a, I'm sensitive (I think it's because I'm intact) and it kind a hurts sticking it into her tight cunt, b, it hurts her if she's not loosened up.

So yeah, knowing I'm (rather) big makes me cautious. I don't think I could ever cheat on my wife (at least in the traditional sense), but in the event she'd let me fuck another girl, I think I would be self-conscious that I couldn't just bone a girl without spending some time working her up. I want my partner to have a pleasurable, not painful experience.