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georgiaguy Amateur Jackinchatter

263 posts since 2006-03-11
53 year old bisexual male from Georgia
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Just started wondering what if anything have you guys or gals done to improve your sex life and or marriage?
We did this one together, making time to talk. Eating better for health.
I did this for me with some pleasant side effects. Loose some weight, start working out regularly and along with eating better have more energy.
These little things have actually increased our sex and passion and generaly improved our marriage.
life is sexual, especially if your Hetero-flexible
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733 posts since 2014-11-22
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I did all that. She never noticed.

I am convinced that I will never have sex again.
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139 posts since 2014-09-11
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Comunication is the key to a good marriage. Don't be afraid to talk to your spouse about anything, especially sex. Good comunication improves not only sex but helps with everything else. Raising childeren,finances and dealing with life's problems.
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Sex with my girl is good, even very good.

Marriage, thats the worst part between us. We are much happier as 2 individuals.
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2099 posts since 2015-06-14
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Shave her lips. Buy some lube and a toy.
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Petercheck Novice Jackinchatter

18 posts since 2013-03-04
73 year old bisexual from Florida
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Georglaguy you'probably correct but wifey who was heavy when weget wedded, got even more overweight. Is suffering from Inflammable Bowel Syndrome, Hipo-neuralgia, bi-polar. I wish her the best but we have no reall communication on sex, she outweighs by 60 lbs me, ugh.frown
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Whaddaya' think?

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Is her name Florida?
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georgiaguy Amateur Jackinchatter

263 posts since 2006-03-11
53 year old bisexual male from Georgia
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Petercheck said:
Georglaguy you'probably correct but wifey who was heavy when weget wedded, got even more overweight. Is suffering from Inflammable Bowel Syndrome, Hypo-neuralgia, bi-polar. I wish her the best but we have no real communication on sex, she outweighs by 60 lbs me, ugh.frown
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Whaddaya' think?

I'm sorry to hear that, her med's not working? I am unfortunately not an MD so I can't really help. Was just wondering if anything you did helped.
Guess I should have clarified that in the original post. And I am also great full to Jackinchat for my lean years it really came in handy, ha-ha.

Lonesome in FL
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georgiaguy Amateur Jackinchatter

263 posts since 2006-03-11
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ggharris said:
Sex with my girl is good, even very good.

Marriage, thats the worst part between us. We are much happier as 2 individuals.

Yeah, gotta agree gg, marriage ruins more good relationships. Ever try pointing out your still an individual, even with the ring. That's what happened at ours about a year in. Once that was out there things got better.
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SloStroker Omnipitant Jackinchatter

7249 posts since 2006-08-21
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I've dropped 45lbs, hit the gym hard, started taking on more household chores, and yes...even "talked". Nothing seems to make my wife want to fuck me. We do it maybe once a month, but otherwise, she is not interested. She will masturbate, but sex seems like a chore for her.
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jamie4400 Amateur Jackinchatter

132 posts since 2015-06-15
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She is in pretty good shape but was a prude, was being the key word. then she got into porn and now slutty, love it
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JOLUVR Professional Jackinchatter

1108 posts since 2014-12-11
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Contrary to myth spewed out by the self help gurus, some women just reach a point in their mature lives where they do not desire sex anymore. I don't wish to be repetitive but this is fact. Losing weight, talking, biking together , swimming, hiking and any number of other activities serve no purpose when it comes to sex. Like SloStroker said most of these cases view it as a chore not a desire. Younger guys in their 30's and 20's have yet to experience the sexual withdrawal women go through in later years after the kids are grown. it's one of those lessons that only time will teach you.
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Petercheck Novice Jackinchatter

18 posts since 2013-03-04
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Dear Joluvr,
Your comments quite helpful. I predict my situation unrare because of the events you describe. She acts lovingly except in bed where I presume she can't get interested in sex. Sigh.amazed
Wow, does jkncht really help! smile
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Str8_Bob Professional Jackinchatter

1351 posts since 2008-04-25
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Talking about what we want in sex, and being cooperative with each other is great at improving sex life. My wife was shy, and when we started dating was shy about sex. She did only what was necessary to keep a boyfriend interested. (Titty play at first and then missionary under the covers.) We talked before marriage about my desire to get down and dirty with all the positions. It worked out great, and it helped that she gets off on being sexually submissive. Kinky and dirty now, with toys and submission!
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SloStroker Omnipitant Jackinchatter

7249 posts since 2006-08-21
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JOLUVR said:
Contrary to myth spewed out by the self help gurus, some women just reach a point in their mature lives where they do not desire sex anymore. I don't wish to be repetitive but this is fact. Losing weight, talking, biking together , swimming, hiking and any number of other activities serve no purpose when it comes to sex. Like SloStroker said most of these cases view it as a chore not a desire. Younger guys in their 30's and 20's have yet to experience the sexual withdrawal women go through in later years after the kids are grown. it's one of those lessons that only time will teach you.


My wife is experiencing perimenopause. She is had headaches, hot flashes, and other symptoms. She has never had a high sex drive but now it's next to nothing and getting worse. She will masturbate, but sex is just too much work for her. Most of the times we have sex she ends up masturbating as she claims she's too tired to fuck any longer.

http://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/perimenopause/basics/definition/con-20029473
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