I used to enjoy coming (no pun intended) here despite the occasional user profile on the front page that was a boner killer.

It was a nice place to find other like minded masturbators who enjoyed the current celebrity hottie, or find a buddy who appreciated the artistic erotica of Met-Art.

Lately it's become wading in a cesspool of users posting pics of their ex-wives/gfs to call them degrading names. Or underage celebs, and then feign innocence/ignorance when the Admins reprimand them despite constant reminders of the rules.

The chatroom has suffered from this as well, just this morning someone posted pics of their friend's daughter. Yeah, that's the kind of friend I want.

I'm glad the Admins are cracking down on the rule breakers, hopefully they can make this place great again.

*gets off my soapbox*

Agreed

All of those things are disturbing, and are definitely playing a huge role in ruining this place, but another thing that has absolutely affected my enjoyment of this site, and has all but driven me off these message boards its the endless, rampant misogyny.

You cannot open a single thread on a celeb babe (which was mainly what I read on these boards) without finding multiple posts degrading that celebrity. They get called bitches, sluts, whores, cunts, etc in *every single thread* and the even stranger phenomena is this strange campaign by some posters to degrade them to the point that they are useless except as sexual objects. Just today I saw an Ariana Grande thread where she is sexualized, called a whore, called a slut, then, strangely, despite having an incredible singing voice and a thriving career as a performer, she is dismissed as "talentless."

Huh?

It's very sad that a group of vocal misogynists that can only get off by belittling, insulting and degrading women have totally ruined this place. With each visit, I learn more and more, much to my chagrin, that this is no longer a place for me.

I think the best example of misplaced misogyny I've seen is here was a user calling Velma from Scooby-Doo a slut.

There are several good threads here, which I've tried to revive. It's sad that they get knocked off the front page for the reasons I've posted above.

As long as it doesn't go the way of cumonprintedpics, I'll still enjoy the forum and IRC channel. But it does seem to be creeping slowly in that direction. I hope that's just a blip.

Agreed str855m, there are people here who enjoy maturbating to beautiful women without the need for negativity.

I hear ya, guys. We are making an effort to weed out that sort of thing, as some of you know (and, hopefully, more will as time goes on).

In the meantime, please don't hesitate to report such behavior. All I ask if you do - especially if you report anonymously - is to provide enough detail to make it easy to verify and act upon.

By no means was this a jab at the People In Charge, you're doing a great job. It's a few people against many and I know how tough that is.

What does seem to be the case is that this trend towards treating women in this way is very much a younger generation thing. The older people on here don't seem to feel the need to talk that way.

I don't get particularly offended by it, as long as that's all it is - talk. It's when it crosses over from fantasy to reality that things get out of hand (no pun intended).

As a woman this has also seriously turned me off too and I couldn't have said it better myself it's like you were in my thoughts so much degrading of women then the guys wonder Why there aren't any of us here

Agreed.

The douchebags that are putting up unauthorized pics of 'neighbours' give everyone a bad name. Plus any `rampant misogyny. Can't we all just get along and get off? It's possible (and healthy) to respect a woman and cum to/with/for her too.

And I'll chime in with one more example...guys who post Facebook URLs or otherwise make the girl's identity known. I've nothing against fantasizing about women you know, jacking off to their photos, etc. But it is way fucked up to make sure their identity is obvious to every internet sociopath out there who would love to harass the girl.

Laws are catching up with that sort of thing, thankfully.

What behavior are you talking about "weeding out." This board has always vigorously enforced the rule against underage stuff. Other than that, coffeenporn just seems to be bitching about stuff on here that doesn't turn him on. So what is the NEW stuff you're weeding out. Pictures of ex-wives? Insufficient "respect" for women? Coffeenporn was just bitching for the sake of bitching. Why should he be accommodated beyond the existing rules which are already rigidly enforced?

So you just love the "People in Charge" who are doing such a great job of running the place. But they're allowing people to post stuff that you don't like. After all, it's "MY Jackinchat" for you, and there are people on here who are not catering to your preferences. So you want new rules and you want the People in Charge to start enforcing them your way. And Rod seems to have bought into that plan.

Hard to know what this thread is really about. It started with coffeenporn moaning about the fact that other people are spoiling HIS board. He's against underage content he tells us. Well guess what. So is everyone else, including the mods who run the place and rigorously enforce the strict rules on the subject. But then coffeenporn slips in some stuff about wives and girlfriends being called bad names. Then, with the ensuing comments, the thread becomes a lot of bitching about "misgogyny" and the charge that people here are disrespectful when talking about women.

A 47 year old dude then complains that "treating women" in this way is a younger generation thing.

And coffeenporn weighs in again with a complaint about a cartoon character named Velma in Scooby-Doo being abused by name calling.

Has it occurred to any of the middle aged dudes who love to bitch so much and think that younger guys are scum, that this is a jackoff site, and that most people here are guys....and a lot of them are young.....and almost the very definition of straight porn is the objectification of women? So you want us to clean up our language while we're abusing women through the use of porn?

OK.....so, except for the comments about underage content, this thread is otherwise crap. We clearly have a lot of middle aged dudes who like to bitch and moan and want to run the place their way. No problem if Rod just ignores it and simply continues to vigorously enforce the underage rules as he always has.

But now we have Rod saying that he wants us to "report such behavior," and that he wants to "weed out that sort of thing." What "behavior?" What "sort of thing" is he talking about?

Underage content? Of course! Everyone's against that, and Rod has always enforced the rules on that. But pictures of adult wives and girlfriends? And naughty words and disrespect around females? Insulting language directed at female cartoon characters maybe?

One may hope that Rod will just ignore the asinine middle aged bitching. But Rod does have a way of making up the rules to suit himself as he goes along, without regard to the Terms of Service. So who knows? Maybe we're entering an era in which impolite words directed at pictures of naked women will no longer be allowed on this jackoff site.