Crazy at it may seem, I've been trying to find someone to share intimate moments with my wife and I. The focus is solely on her, and I'd like it to include things like erotic massages before potentially scaling up to a full mfm with DP over time. I'd prefer a 21 year old, because we drink, but am open to +/- 3 years from that as an ideal age range. Regardless, he must be articulate, educated, well mannered, and a generally clean/hygienic good person.

As a 31/33 year old couple, it seems impossible for us to find someone that matches what we're looking for. Ideally, he'd have MILF and ass fetishes (wife has a big ass), and would be excited to chat with me about his thoughts, sniff her panties, and jerk off to photos and videos of her when all 3 of us can't get together.

Where do I find these guys? The yahoo chat rooms of yore are long gone, so how do I find and connect with them? Craigslist hasn't panned out nor have dating sites. Have apps taken over and I've transitioned too far from the hip crowd to know about them?

Suggestions?

if i lived in CO i'd be there. sorry

maybe start looking at Swinger sites in your area and meet a guy whose wife wouldn't mind?

wow. Good luck bud! If I were a few years younger, I'd fly out! You and your wife sound wonderful

Gonna be hard to find that in a 21yo.

When I was in my 30's I participated in a couple of gang bangs for older women (60+). It was back before Viagra and their husbands couldn't get hard anymore. They invited 10 guys and on both occasions only 4 or 5 showed and only 2 or 3 of us fucked her.

Seems some men get off on the idea of doing something different, but when it comes down to it they back out.

I can't tell you how many hook ups I've have planned with guys and had "something come up". Very frustrating when you plan on meeting and the other person backs out.

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SwingLifeStyle and Adult Friend Finder have been really useful for my wife and me. We find a lot of single guys on there to fuck her.