Here's a hypothetical question for the guys. Would you revert to your teenage/pre-pubescent years and be able to orgasm without actually ejaculating?

I envy women (well, most women anyway) who can have orgasm after orgasm without actually succumbing to cumming (as it were). Guys on the other hand have to resort to tricky techniques such as Tantra to achieve the same effect. I ejaculate loads and I usually give at least one powerful spurt when it goes everywhere. While it's admittedly sometimes fun to watch the cum fly, most of the time I hate having the clean up the mess. It's especially annoying when I find I've got it on something important like a piece of work, my computer screen, bed covers, clean clothes, in my hair, etc. It's even worse when I don't find it and someone else does (in the manner of There's Something About Mary). When I'm lying in bed, too, I prefer masturbating naked under the covers. It's at times like these that I wish I could just have an orgasm then just curl up and drift off to sleep without having to worry about the huge wet patch.

Your thoughts?

I totally agree, sometimes I really enjoy my cum and thats what I'm striving for in the first place but ya those times when you want the climax and roll over and go to bed without the added 10-15 mins of clean up

I can have them. It doesn't involve anything complicated like deep meditation or special breathing, just strong muscles. When you're about to orgasm, squeeze your muscles down there as tight as you can for as long as you can. You'll get about 70-80% of the pleasure of a full ejaculatory orgasm, with none of the mess. (You'll probably have to practice before you get it right.)
Of course, I've never just left it at that. I'll always keep going until I have an ejaculatory orgasm.

Same here. It's more fun if you cum, but sometimes it nice not to have a mess to clean up.

Yeah, I tried that a couple of times. It's risky though because I can't always hold it.

I went from wet dreams to masturbating...never had a time when I didn't have something to clean up

I agree with most of the above posters. If I could control it, that would be great. Sometimes, the mess of a cumshot is part of the excitement, but it would be liberating to have dry orgasms in situations where clean-up is inconvenient, or even risky (like making a mess where you shouldn't, or missing a spot and getting caught).

i might like to try having dry orgasms to see what it would feel like. i never had a dry cum when i wasa kid.

I really dont like cleaning up the mess after i cum. it might be nice to be able to have a cum anywhere you want and maybe just be a little damp like girls do. but i can never hold it. and feeling the cum pressure build up and then letting it blow when you cant hold it any lomger is such a great feeling.

It dont seem like just having the muscular contractions could be as satisfying. seems like guys need to feel the cum squirt out.

Hey, everyone...enjoy yourselves being able to shoot cum. AFter prostate surgery, you can't. An orgasm feels just as good, except for the actual ejaculating part. I miss that feeling of the actual shooting of the cum, as well as the excitement of it. Don't think you don't want to ejaculate. Believe me, you do want to.

Yeah, that's the main problem... When I can't hold it, I usually end up with a disappointing half orgasm and no ability to continue. However, I seem to be improving, and I'm certainly having fun practicing.

It might be a good thing that I can't. If I did, I'd probably jerk off secretly through my pants in public places all the time.

I would love to have dry orgasms if it meant I could have multiple orgasms. It was not mentioned at the posts beginning. As much as I love to watch myself cum, I would trade that in in a heartbeat to "O" and continue on over and over. But like meatbeater, If I had the ability to cum w/o the mess , Id be cummin in all kinds of strange places. HMMMMM what a pleasant thought

I agree with you guys, I'd cum just about any where at any time. Just think of all the freedom we'd have. Sure would make the commute to and from work more fun.

You are right... Thats what happens. I can dry cum (tho some does get out sometimes), but, admidtedly, its probably easier for me, as I'm kinda a hyper-bator, and so the volume per session is lower...

But just like meatbeater says, the result is a LOT of public "in pants" masturbation. (Transport, Movies, etc...)

I fully remember my orgasms when I was a little one, like 5 or 6. I would make my dick go up and down in the water of the bathtub until I had an orgasm. No cum involved. I had the most intense tremors and quakes. My orgasms now are great, but no where as intense as those first ones when I couldn't cum. I would love to have that experience again. I would tremble for at least a couple of minutes. And. before you ask, yes I was having orgasms that young.