I am looking for my first jO bud experience but am VERY nervous. My perfect first time would go somethinglike...

The perfect first time for me would be me showing up and you having weed and shots ready. Love a few shots to loosen up. Then we would sit and watch some porn, talk and find other pervs in chat rooms or online messenger. As we get more comfortable with each other, we would begin stroking our cocks and each others cocks while chatting online and maybe even sharing our fun on video. Depending how things go and how loose we get, maybe we could suck each other off... if we last that long.

My questions is, does that sound like something that would be fun for you? I doubt I will find someone in my area on here, but at least I can find out if I am alone in this fun night fantasy.

Oh yes. It sounds like a great time of starting slow, and letting things naturally take their course.

Sounds pretty fun. I'm starting to get a bit curious about at least licking a penis...

That's exactly what I think of when I fantasize about jacking off with another guy. Getting high, watching porn, stroking, edging, jacking each other, and for hours! When we cum, take a break then go right back to it when we're ready.

How important is chemistry to you? Besides just being scared and nervous, I think having a certain chemistry is important.

You've hit on the most important thing. You need a like minded guy who wants to enjoy masturbation with a friend. It helps to be friends because J/O is a bonding experience which improves friendships. If you get along well it reduces the nervousness about pulling out your cock.