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This may sound strange but I'd like a serious reply if anybody has a comment. Has anyone here ever just got burned out on the whole porn/masturbation thing? I have never been any good with the partner thing even though I've been married for 32 years. I've turned to masturbation for the great portion of my sexual pleasure but these days I feel like I'm just going through the motions. Right now I don't care if I ever have sex a again. Little depressed about it. Any suggestions?
yes im the same age as you totally addicted to jerkin but some days i feel the urge but once started and cant really be bothered ,but a few short breaks occasionally works wonders
I pray the day comes when I'm not horny 24/7.
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Jerking off can get boring. I like to mix up the way in which I jerk my cock. I sometimes use toys, different places, edge or just go right to cumming. Also, I mix up using porn or not. By using various means and methods, the jerking off remains very pleasurable and effective.
I of lately have fallen into this catagory had times when i get a hard on ready for a good thrash coz the wifes gone out but then it all goes no where have trouble ejaceulating and seem to wank for ages then i have to insert something into my anus to stimulate the prostate then i finally get there it is so tiring
General Str8 nice guy
Give it a rest for a while. Why go through the motions if you're bored with it? I've noticed that as I get older, I go for stretches of days at a time where I'm just not that interested in sex or masturbation - especially after I've come several times in the stretch of a few days. So I get immersed in other interests for a few days or a week or two. The interest always comes back eventually.
I have experienced you exact same feelings. I am 67 soon to be 68 (strange how that works that way). I will also say, it comes and goes. I call it male menopause. I am no Dr or play one on TV but I have known other males who experience these feelings as well, and as you have read in this thread. I think you learn to deal with it, recognize it, then go like hell when you have those times when you experience the horns-up feelings. My sex-life is masturbation as well and yes it is boring at times, but also safe. I really think you are experiencing the aging factor, and remembering your youth. It sucks...but such is life.
Could just be too much of a good thing /too routine, could be signs of medical issues. Give it a rest for a while then see. If it remains uninteresting, go see a Doc and get checked out.
I know what you mean. The older I get the less importance sex seems to be. But when you do get it on I think it's great. I lost my wife 14 years ago. So my experience I guess is different. When I go out now getting laid isn't the number one priority anymore.
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