I writing here to open the discussion on mutual jerkoff friends, how they happen, how they are maintained and how to qualify one.

Let me define 'Jerkoff Friend' : A person you meet up with to masterbate with regularly or casually with mutual respect while being discreet and understanding each others boundaries.

I'm 30, Married and love to jerkoff. I love my sex life with my wife yet have experimented with mutual jerkoff sessions and enjoy to play around once and awhile. I love hand jobs and love providing one in return.

Every so often I find myself seeking a mutual JO partner who have mutual interests (for example: same taste in porn, celebs, and/or women) I jump on CL or JnC to find people. I only had luck twice out of the past 4 years and those experiences only happened once.

I understand that its hard to find mutually minded people but I know their e out there. So my question for you is: what would qualify you to be a Jerkoff Buddy? What would the other person need to be if you were to meet up and jerk off or jerk each other off?

While seeking a JO buddy these are the problems I bump into:

Nether of us can host
Can't find the time or place
We chat then radio silence
Other person wants more - like BJ or Sex
Other person isn't comfortable with their sexuality and afraid

anyways maybe my idea of having a buddy who I can hang out with occasionally and jerkoff together or each other is just a pipe dream. But if you had and successful experiences please let me know.

Yup, I run into the same problems with finding a JO bud. My ideal one is someone about my age, discrete, clean, non-smoker, and likes tasteful straight porn. He should be open to some touching of each other if we both feel inclined. He can't be pushy or a jerk. And our sessions cannot interfere with or replace my fun times with my wife (and we have lots of fun). Anyone out there?

well, the old saying is true: where there's a will, there's a way. i've had some luck before, but the key for me at least is to find someone who is really into masturbation, esp. edging. if that's the case, you don't even have to like the same porn. you can each watch your own. the focus is pleasuring your cocks, and making it last. you also need to determine ahead of time if mutual j/o is on the table. if you have those things, in my experience, it will work out.

I have a lot of friends.
Some became j/o buddies.

Yet the ones that have were already my buddy and it just happened.

These are the two that stop me. Even if I find a guy who can host, my schedule and his don't line up.

I have a friend I've been trying to get to jerk with me for years. I've even jerked off while he watched, but didn't join in. Saturday he texted me several links to porn vids. We were both jerking. I mentioned that we needed to get together and watch these at his house and blow our loads together. He replies "Let's do it!". I am sure he was just horny, but I am going to give it a go for sure.

He knows I'm bi, and I think that scares him a bit. I've told him I am not attracted to men, only cock, but I think he feels like I'm sweet on him or something. I would love to suck his big dick...it's beautiful.

Im not sure what makes a good jo buddy but i feel your frustration finding a good one im 38 and had a good jo buddy since i was 13 up untill 8 yrs ago i got married and moved away and havnt had any luck replacing him... And it sucks...

jerksalot has hit the nail on the head. It is damn hard to find another guy who can host - at least now and then - and is simply into jacking off together, not really angling for blow jobs or fucking. Now that dick.net is dead, this is probably the best place on the net to find someone. I just wish more guys would fill out their profiles, especially with locations, and check their jackin mailbox from time to time. Lots of us are looking for j/o buds.

I had a great jack off buddy years ago. We lived in different cities and he would come to my city for training programs and we would meet up in his motel room. We didn't jerk each other's dicks because he didn't feel comfortable with it, even though I wanted to do that. Still, we had a wonderful time and I miss to this day. Wish I could find another especially one that would like mutually fondling each other.

I hear you loud and clear. I'm amazed at the number of posts listed as " Unregistered " and those that have zero information about them. I remember one listed " somewhere USA ".
WOW, that helps a lot ha ?

All of the posts are situations I can relate to. Had a friend when I was younger, looking for someone now, can't find a time or place and need to have a friend to trust enough to get that first meeting going. It would be ideal to find another porn loving guy who wants to edge for hours and share that experience of having our cocks being pleasured together. That's what it's all about! My inbox is not full. Let's chat.

I agree with most stuff listed here. married and luv the feel of stroking and edging my cock to pics on here and other sites. I have stroked it on cam for married guys who would show me their wifes or other pics and that would get me horny. Just afraid of maybe a really deep deviate contacts me wanting to do more than stroke, edge maybe mutual stroking together and needs to be discreet very discreet.

I'm totally inexperienced with it but have been looking for a jerk off bud for about 8 or so years. Jerking together, jerking each other, makes no difference. I'm 69 years old and age is catching up with me and I'm starting to think it'll never happen.

I am out here. A great description of an ideal jacking buddy. Good luck to both of us!

This is interesting because when I was younger and early teen, it wasn't uncommon one of my friends got hold of some porn and we would be a few guys that gathered and jacked off to it. When I sleeped over at my closest friend, his parents had cable tv and around midnight one channel always showed porn. So we always watched and jerked off in our sleeping bags. That was they way, nothing complicated. If one want to meet a guy for that today things always gets complicated in one way or another.

I agree with that. I could host at least some of the time. The hard part is finding a guy who wants to play but isn't seeking to escalate to anal or something which I'm not interested in.