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PervInPrivate Novice Jackinchatter

16 posts since 2015-11-24
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No matter if I am having sex or jacking off, once I jizz, I lose all sex drive. If I'm on here, I shoot and shut down the windows. No more porn or anything until I get horny again (which generally doesn't take long of I am porn searching or chatting).

Anyone else or is this weird?
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manshowingoff4u Novice Jackinchatter

87 posts since 2008-03-03
56 year old curious male from Massachusetts
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Happens all the time.
Pretty common.
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PervInPrivate said:
No matter if I am having sex or jacking off, once I jizz, I lose all sex drive. If I'm on here, I shoot and shut down the windows. No more porn or anything until I get horny again (which generally doesn't take long of I am porn searching or chatting).

Anyone else or is this weird?


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98 posts since 2009-10-10
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Very common. I've read, in fact, that it's hard-wired behavior dating back to prehistoric times. Males would have sex drive to procreate and reproduce, but immediately after the act, need to resume the role of protector and provider. Continuing to goon over tits and pussy after cumming is useless when the wolf (or carniverous dinosaur) is lurking outside the cave....
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From this article, Research shows that during ejaculation, men release a cocktail of brain chemicals, including norepinephrine, serotonin, oxytocin, vasopressin, nitric oxide, and the hormone prolactin. The release of prolactin is linked to the feeling of sexual satisfaction, and it also mediates the recovery time that men are well aware of, the time a guy must wait before giving it another go.

Side note, prolactin also explains why men are sleepier after intercourse than after masturbation. For unknown reasons, intercourse orgasms release four times more prolactin than masturbatory orgasms, according to a recent study.
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229 posts since 2010-10-28
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Over the years I've gotten comfortable enough to not feel the need to get dressed or stop looking at porn right after cumming. Even though I lose my erection, I'll usually stay naked and look at porn a while longer, unless I've got something important to do.

Often after fucking the gf and cumming in her pussy, I can keep slowly stroking in and out of her. My cock will lose some hardness, but it stays hard enough to keep penetrating, at least for a few minutes.

The last guy I jacked off with asked if he could play with my limp cock after I came. I let him, but told him to be gentle as its pretty sensitive after I cum. He said a lot of guys want to get dressed and leave right after they blow their load, so he was glad to be able to play with my spent cock.
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twink18WI Amateur Jackinchatter

108 posts since 2015-11-13
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Nice profile. Getting back on topic, I am the same way, unless I have the urge to piss, then I'll piss on myself.

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Over the years I've gotten comfortable enough to not feel the need to get dressed or stop looking at porn right after cumming. Even though I lose my erection, I'll usually stay naked and look at porn a while longer, unless I've got something important to do.

Often after fucking the gf and cumming in her pussy, I can keep slowly stroking in and out of her. My cock will lose some hardness, but it stays hard enough to keep penetrating, at least for a few minutes.

The last guy I jacked off with asked if he could play with my limp cock after I came. I let him, but told him to be gentle as its pretty sensitive after I cum. He said a lot of guys want to get dressed and leave right after they blow their load, so he was glad to be able to play with my spent cock.
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SloStroker Omnipitant Jackinchatter

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My desire will wane a bit, but I don't completely lose my desire.

What I hate is when you're camming with someone and they blow their load then disconnect leaving me high and dry.
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Ready2Shoot Enlightened Jackinchatter

2931 posts since 2006-07-23
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Yeah, my horniness definitely drops off. I think that's why a lot of guys lose the urge to eat their own jizz after they cum....what a tragedy!
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McGuire14 Amateur Jackinchatter

300 posts since 2015-08-24
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I lose interest after. i don't feel so sexy in my kinky shit & i immediately remove it. Sometimes i pass out from the combo being so relaxed & tired/exhausted

I hate that "i gotta pee" feeling after or especially during. So i try to empty out first.

Not always successful
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583 posts since 2007-06-21
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pulinit said:
From this article,
Side note, prolactin also explains why men are sleepier after intercourse than after masturbation. For unknown reasons, intercourse orgasms release four times more prolactin than masturbatory orgasms, according to a recent study.

Biological reason for being sleepier after intercourse == emotional bonding with your 'mate' encourages long-term pairing, thereby pooling of skills (hunting, nurturing children) for survival.

I'm not surprised to hear there's 4 times as much 'sleepy bonding' hormone after intercourse. I was all excited to lose my virginity, but the first few times I felt that phenomenal 'afterglow' after intercourse it blew me (and her) away. We are still married.
There wasn't much about it in the porn literature -- because that's oriented towards the need to masturbate.
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"Over the years I've gotten comfortable enough to not feel the need to get dressed or stop looking at porn right after cumming. Even though I lose my erection, I'll usually stay naked and look at porn a while longer, unless I've got something important to do."

Same here I keep the porn playing I recline back an take time to enjoy the moment, usually continue to slowly stroke it. Sometimes if I keep stroking past and watching porn after awhile my dick springs back to life and im off and running. edging all over again.
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Yes, as soon as I cum I instantly lose all interest in anything sexual. If I am on omegle or Skype, its instantly shut down and I go off to wipe myself.
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slanky52 Amateur Jackinchatter

423 posts since 2015-11-21
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Yeah, my horniness definitely drops off. I think that's why a lot of guys lose the urge to eat their own jizz after they cum....what a tragedy!


That's me. When I'm working up to it I totally want to eat my cum, but after I blow my load it's hard to do. Sounds pretty hot right now though. I haven't had a chance to jack for several days.
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when i started wanking,i didnt ejaculate and was wanking 2 or 3 times every day.3 years later and spunking,i needed a rest and did it once every 2 days.ejaculating definitely decreases your energy!
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