With two kids, one in high school and one in junior high, I have a hard time (literally) finding moments alone to enjoy myself. I need to be alone in order to chat and jerk off. Does anyone else have this issue? I rub one out in the shower but it would be nice to take my time. And then on the opposite side of the coin is my 15 year old who jacks off anytime he gets behind a closed door. 😳. Any suggestions from the "been there" crowd?

Never ever had any real problem finding the time to have a wonderful jack off period. There were time when I delayed it but still got the job done.

It's called don't fucking have kids.

We have a daughter in high school and a cat that likes to come wake up my wife and me in the morning, so I have no free time.

Before the cat I could wake up in the morning and spend some time with my cock while the wife was sleeping.

So who are you trying to keep your jacking life secret from?

Is the problem that you are trying to keep it secret from too many people, including, perhaps, your wife? If so maybe you need to have a talk with her and say you need to get off regularly - it's more sex or else she needs to accept you'll jack off.

Or, if you're divorced maybe it's time to have a chat with your 15 y/o. Explain that you have the same needs and agree on a sign for "do not disturb" which you can use to avoid him walking in on you.

Yeah. I forgot about the cats. And dog.

I have a wife and an 11yo daughter and I always find time to masturbate. I go in my room, shut the door, and enjoy myself.

My wife knows I am jerking off, and my daughter knows to knock if the door is shut.

I would hate to live in a home where masturbation was seen as "dirty" or "wrong". Everyone in my house masturbates, it's as normal and natural as using the bathroom. When I have to do that, I go to the bathroom and shut the door.

I'm very thankful my wife is very open about masturbating and enjoys it too. It's just not a big issue in my house.