i'd like to find a nice site to host some of the pics i take. Something photobucketish, maybe with comments and messaging, other regular couples.

any suggestions?

Have you tried zoig.com?

Well I can't say just how many couples are on this site, but anything your post there will surely attract some appreciative comments! Free to join, no popups, or other garbage and they are certainly a friendly bunch there. http://www.hornygrandpa.com

try: www.tumblr.com - start your own free site!

We use Tumblr. Have a public blog for sharing porn between the wife and I, plus some of our own pics, and then a private blog with all our photos on which we can use for sharing.

can you post video to tumbler?

Wifelovers.com

Flickr.com it is the yahoo site and if you have a yahoo account you are already in!