Not everyone are looking for the same thing, or
many of the guys on this site just want to get off, and
maybe that's why never fill in a profile. Do guys
really want a regular buddy?

For me, I would prefer a buddy, as I have lost contact
2 over the recent years, things just changed.

The masturbation together was quite amazing as not all sexual
acts practical nor possible, but in just open conversation
well you can.

On this occasion, I am not looking for a cam user, nor
a guy to meet nor explore my own bi tendencies, what I do
like is a guy who I can write to, or chat to when the time
suits, and share deepest sexual urges, where most of the
time in real life, you just cannot.

My secret urges which do not fit into my relationship with
my wife (why should she!), is - shemales, threesomes, femboys,
bi or gay porn, twinks,rimming, frotting, and fantasies. And of
course I love straight porn and experiences that I like to share with
a buddy who may be married also.

That's my version of it.

I enjoy having someone to jerk off with. Its more fun with company. I also get the urge to suck or stroke someone else's cock occasionally. I had a guy who would come over to play when my wife was away or working, but that was before we got married. I havent had company since i got married, and sometimes i miss it.

aha, you have some interesting old experiences there!

I like having buddies. It's hard to find ones that are compatible. There are many I like chatting and camming with on this and other sites but might not want to meet in person. That said you can never have enough buddies.

I've enjoyed having another person to wank to porn with since my mid teens, it's naughty, it's fun and it feels right. I wouldn't describe myself as even being bi curious as I'm only into masturbating over females. It's just awesome having someone else there who enjoys getting off over the same girls, the dirty talk is great. "I can't wait to see her pussy" etc. Masturbation is usually such a lonely sport, but we all do it. So why the hangups?

I agree tho I like cumshots as well. More enjoyable seeing one live.

So why is it so hard to find a bud to stroke with? We all do it, so why the hang up with doing it with a friend? I remember as a youth strokin with my buds...seeing who could shoot the furthest or who had the biggest load. It was great to have buds encouraging each other with things like "yeah huge cock bud" or "jerk that fuckin dick bro" and "sweet load dude you must have really needed that" i miss those days and my bros.

Never had that experience in my youth - I was a late bloomer to mutual stroking. That being said, I would love to have a regular buddy for some stroking and occasional oral. The problem is when you're both married finding time and available places to play. There's a married guy I've met with three times since last fall. I'd love to hang more but I'll take what I can get.

I enjoyed the normal pre-teens and teen experiences with friends at school. I had a blow-job when I was abut 19 from a stranger who gave me a lift when I was hitch hiking. I even performed anal sex on a guy in my mid-20's simply because the friend I was with chatted up two male prostitutes, and I felt obliged to participate.
Last year, some 40+ years after having had any male-male contact, I found my first wank buddy. The idea was to meet up and wank eachother off, but on the first meeting, we ended up sucking eachother off (first time for both of us). We've met twice since then and sucked eachother off each time.
I never thought I'd want to do that, let alone try it, but I quite enjoy it now and it's nowhere near as bad as I thought it would be. I'm looking forward to the next time.

These are all good to read, and I can relate to each ones point of view. It is hard however to find just that one type of person who you kinda connect the same way, or just the same way of expressing yourself I guess. It is rare we all have the same likes, but sometimes, like i did in the past, you chat with one guy and you feel really connected to his mind and the orgasms can be high, even though we dont have the same sexual urges.

No. Nope. The idea of being naked with a stranger is terrifying. And I bet....ninety percent of the guys who say its great are lying.

well i cant speak for the rest of the guys here, but first off i am not a liar. to some such as yourself i guess it could be terrifying to get naked with another guy and stroke or even better stroke each other, but for me that feeling isnt terror it's one of the most exciting experiences ive ever had.

To be able to be yourself with another male and able to express your deepest fantasies and desires and not be criticized for it has made me into the strong independent business owner and man i am today. so unless you have tried it please dont lump the rest of us into your group.

well said

You're a better businessman because you had a wank session with a total stranger?

Just when you think you've heard everything.

I'm a so-called "straight" guy who has developed a proclivity for jerking off with other men since I started doing it several years ago, which has progressed from chat, to cam, to voice/phone, to the point where I will now occasionally masturbate to live streams of other guys masturbating on chaturbate and places like that, as it turns me on.

The thing is, though... I'm straight in real life. My wife knows about my online activities and we've talked about my gay fantasies, but to be honest, that's all they are. I've never seen a guy in real life and been attracted to him.

Long story short, after thinking about it for a long time, no, I definitely don't want a buddy. I want a guy with a deep, sexy voice to make my dick hard while he tells me what he'd do to me for a few minutes on the phone, but I honestly doubt I would ever meet that same guy in person for any reason. I guess it's why I always tell guys in the chat that I'm straight in real life but bi online. I don't understand it 100% but it seems to have worked out that way for me.