Wondering if anyone else identifies as a wimp and a loser. I get turned on by humiliation. My fetishes include bring ignored and hot friends being honest to me. My friend who is close to me is honest to me, I told her she's like a 8/10, she said thanks but when I asked her about myself, she said I'm 3/10. Strange turn on that she's a desirable, fit female and I wank alone in my bedroom thinking about her.

i like losers that jack off all the time and spend the rest of their time talking about their dicks and jacking material.

That's me!

I've never understood why wanking should equate with "loser".

Wankers are winners!

I feel your pain dude I've been friendzoned so many times it's depressing.

Over time it feels hot. It's okay, let's just be friends.

That's definitely me

come on guys, you really lack of self confidence. No girl likes guys like that. Girls like emotional security on a man. You don't need to be Brad Pitt. Never ask a girl what does she think about you, that's nerd stuff.

Just find a nice and postive girl and ask her to go out. Not your best female friend, who think you are her brother, or the most beautiful one, who think she's a princess. Just a regular, good looking, nice and down to earth one. There are tons of nice girls waiting for a date.

Always been a shy loner and not good with women. I discovered I like the idea of been a loser and enjoy some forms of humiliation. I jackoff to unattainable women because they are so gorgeous and unattainable; I project rejection onto their images. I also jackoff to superior cocks and to cuckolding porn. My wife had lovers and it was great. I am more of a sub faggot now.

this also describes me to a tee

Although I owned up to it and try to make the best of it, technically I cannot really shake off the loser label. I'm 46, unmarried, have very little sexual experience and never - EVER - with a hot girl, so... I guess that's me, yes. And I may not be exactly proud of it, but I also accept myself and don't feel shame. I embraced the solosexual lifestyle, got used to it and now see no reason to turn back, honestly.

Hummmm. Never classified my self as a "loser" but what you guys are describing sounds a lot like me. I was never good with women. i've only ever been with 2 in my whole life. One GF nd the other I married. The first girl I fucked every day for almost a year and half. She was not hot. I'm pretty sure she only came a couple of times in all our adventures. The next woman (my current wife) was young and inexperienced and let me fuck her and she got pregnant so we got married. A very bad idea. We really don't like each other much and I try hard not to fuck her often. My whole sex life has been masturbation which I prefer to any other sex. I've been with a few guys but it doesn't really satisfy me. Jacking is my main thing for sure. Not into humiliation. Just luv the jack. Do I qualify as a loser?

Only you can identify yourself as a loser. No one can do that but you. Some may call you a loser, but it is only to make themselves seem more superior, when actually they are far more inferior. People that call others losers, lack the self esteem to actually look in the mirror and really see themselves for who they are. I am no Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp but I don't consider myself a loser. My first wife left me when her ex boyfriend got out of prison. A lot if people would have taken that as a sign that they were a loser, to lose your wife to a convict. I could have called her a loser for accepting to divorce me, a upstanding man in the community that was making enough money to buy her a house with an ocean view, a brand new car and whatever she desired, to go back to a convicted man, fresh out of prison, who had no job and no way to support her. Of course she got the house but oh well. As for the car, I left it in the airport parking lot with a note on it saying that whomever wanted it, it was theirs. I left the keys in the ignition with the title, in only my name, signed and sitting on the seat. It was a brand new, at that time, 1985 Mustang Saleen! Don't know what happened to it, but I didn't feel like driving it all the way from Oregon to North Carolina when I could get me another one when I got back here. I really didn't like the red color anyway. But, only you can make yourself a loser, no one else can.

Totally identify with being a loser beta male. Very sexy and humiliating

I love little dick losers..love to be their daddy and make them expose their women to me..yep, luv you guys!