We all J/O but I don't need to be with another guy (seems a little gay to me) to get off. Have jerked for woman lots of times and can only think of a group session with a live straight sex show or porn videos. One on one is not for me.

I'd live to have one but let me explain it this way.
The population of my town is 67,685 as of 2013 and yet I don't know a single possibility for this short of going to a gay bar and finding way more than I bargained for.
Most guys interested in JO want only to play and perhaps maybe oral if things work out, no more.
Just men doing things known to be pleasurable to a man.

To be honest, it had never been such a huge fantasy for me until recently. I think back then, it was mostly inhibition that would have put me off.

Now that I enjoy it in my imagination, I am not sure if it would actually be worth it in real life. I am in a committed and happy relationship. It would be too big a secret to keep and I am pretty sure she would feel hurt, which is the last thing I want.

It's tempting at times to act upon my curiosity. For example, she's going away for a couple of days mid-August. But when I imagine how I'd feel after the cum dries up and the fairy dust evaporates, ultimately I don't think it's worth it for me.

Chubby guy here as well but I'm still open to it

Years ago I had a regular bud. It was great. We met at a porn theatre. It has been a while and I miss it. Time and situations make it difficult.

Can not find anyone who will do it with me

I gave up trying because guys always seem to flake and I got tired of wasting my time. I think guy are turned on by the idea of it but when it cumms down to it they are not interested.

Main reason is it is something that for sixty years or more I did alone or with my wives or girlfriends and I have no need to do it with another guy, unless a group of us were watching porn or a live sex show.

I'd be watching the other guys in the room!

Only reason for me would be timing. We both cant get away to meet up at the same time

Sadly they are really hard to find especially in a rural area like mine. Turst could be an issue too. I dont need someone showing up at my door by surprise.

Very true! Most chicken out and never make contact again.

It is a real shame that this happens. Makes it harder for us serious about having jo bud to find them. And it's already difficult to.

Wish I could find more guys in my area who want a jo bud

Not ez to find new jack buds that r for real

I guess it`s a combination of nerves, trust and danger. And added to that, I haven`t really had any opportunities. I`m also embarrassed by my small dick, if I`m honest.