I'm 56 now and I jerk off about three times a week. The wife began taking antidepressants 12 or 13 years ago and we haven't had sex since 2000. She has no libido, no desire for sex whatever. I would never have believed when I was a younger guy that I would someday have a sexless marriage. Let that be a lesson to you kids.
So it's not entirely a sexless marriage since I'm taking care of bizness a couple times a week. But it's very difficult now to get a hardon just by rubbing, laying in bed trying to yank it. I don't really get a morning hardon anymore, I get a softon sometimes. I can get a nice hardon with internet porn but I don't think a Playboy would do it anymore. One day soon I'm going to have to get a script for Viagra or something just to jerk off.
I know I lot of you older guys have gone thru this stage and I would like to hear when you started taking a pill and any experiences or advice you can share.
You young guys who can still get a hardon in about ten seconds, I urge you to appreciate it. It won't always be that way.

try this smoothie before you try viagra;

1 cup blueberries
1 cup vanilla yogurt
2 Tbsp flaxseeds
1 cup orange juice
1 cup ice

the ice is optional. i make mine without it. it's not liquid viagra, but i've noticed my erections have been stronger when i drink it before i beat off. it's tasty too.

I heard on the news yesterday that if you eat a lot of watermelon it will help with an erection. They said it contains some chemical that will open up your blood vessels resulting in a better erection.
Luckily I have no problem getting hard, but I think I'll eat some watermelon and see what the effects are.

the chemical is in the rind, the part you dont eat.

55 here, and started using Vitamin V on occasion after discovering the wonderful effects of blood pressure medication

I find that I can cut them and Cialis in smaller pieces and get the desired effect.

I feel for you on the sexless marriage. We went through that a few months ago with menopausal issues, but it is somewhat better. She is really trying to be interested, and has come to the point that she has accepted my masturbation, will even joke about it with me. Of course, if I lay down in the bed to watch a porn and jerk off, a lot of times she'll see it on and watch it with me, and I'll end up getting laid anyway. Funny how that works.

I started about a year ago. I should have started sooner. It really enhances my jerkoff sessions and allows me to really enjoy myself.