So, what do you think your significant others reaction would be if she found out you were jacking off with other guys on the internet or in some cases in person. Also like to hear from those that think it would be no big deal.

Mine would be totally pissed!
That is why I am super careful.

probably pissed, but I don't jack off on line

Couples who plat together stay together, why hide it.

Mine did. Read some posts I sent. Now she thinks I want to fuck every gay guy she sees... little does she know. Im totally bi. I love extra pussy, too... I think this knowledge made her realize she needs to give me more action... but unfortunately she still wont suck my cock...

Mine would go totally bonkers.
I do wish more women were accepting of it. I think it would be great to have a significant other who encouraged it as a healthy part of one's sexuality which it actually is.
Lots of guys say their sex life at home is greatly improved by having regular mutual sessions with friends.

And one of the reasons she won't suck your cock is what drives you to find other guys who will...Most wives if they found out, if they are older say 50+ will just bitch but not leave you, regardless of what we think..

For them to leave us at that age means they will have to start over and most women don't want to be alone or begin dating for companionship plus getting divorced might mean giving up the house as part of the settlement...So guys who say their wives will do this or that are just guessing...Bitch and maybe stop fucking their husband, yes, but most aren't interested in sex after 50, so no big loss...that's why we are here on JacknChat, right?????

My wife and I revealed to each other we were bisexual years ago. My wife has played with another woman while I watched and I have told her about guys I was with before I met her. She was disgusted by it and said "the thought of two guys together makes me sick". She is not turned on by my desires. I'd go so far as to say my wife is 90% lesbian. She seldom wants sex and rarely ever talks about guys being good looking. She will talk about how pretty other women are and when she looks at porn it's always lesbian porn. She enjoys sex, but seldom has any desire for it.

That said, I encourage her to explore her bi side, but she doesn't want to. She says it's "cheating" and tells be if I am with another man, even on cam, it's cheating. She is also concerned with STDs and since she works for a Dr., she sees them frequently in medical charts.

If she found out I was camming with men, she would not be happy. She wouldn't leave me or anything, but she'd track me even more than she does now. Trust would be destroyed. I've stepped out on her before and almost got a divorce but we patched things up for the sake of our child. She already doesn't trust me, and she has no sexual interest in me, so catching me jerking with a guy would just make things very tense around the house and cause a few arguments.

On the flip side, she has no problem with me jerking off and looking a porn. She figures that is a healthy outlet for my sexual desires. I'm jerking off right now and my wife is getting ready for work. She could care less if I'm hard and stroking. She pays no attention to me. As a test I once colored the head of my cock black with a sharpie marker to see if she'd notice. She never did. I finally had to say, "see anything different?" before she noticed.

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I am a total wankaholic I wank every time I get the chance (when I'm not fucking my wife)
I get an even bigger buzz out of wanking on cam with other guy's (females if you can find any) but the main object is to enjoy yourself and not do any harm. I have been caught by my wife on countles number of occasions and she still gets really pissed off by it, so she knows I do it, she knows about this site and I've tried to explain I'm not doing anyone any harm by me wanking off on cam with other like minded guy's and (females if there are any watch) but she still gets so pissed off. At the end of the day I am still wanking my cock off on cam and I'm loving it.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhh YES I TRUELY LOVE WANKING

I've never been caught. I've told her about the site so I'm not sure what she'd say or do. My guess is she'd not really say anything.

@ SloStroker, I've heard lots of women who enjoy some same sex pleasuring are horrified when guys do it. What gives anyway ?
I think it livens up your sex life.
BTW she's right to be concerned about STD, it's out there and the numbers of cases are increasing.

I've never been caught, and I've been married for 45 years. My wife knows that I have bisexual desires, and has been in the room as I've had some rather tame M-M experiences. But we no longer play, and I don't cheat on her, so that's held in-check.

Does she know that I jerk off? Almost certainly. She buzzes off with her Magic Wand, too. And I love knowing that she gets off doing it.

Does she know that I jerk off on webcam while wearing lingerie, with other guys watching me? No. Does she even suspect it? Doubtful.

She loves me, and I love her. She would be hurt -- feeling excluded -- but I honestly don't think she'd be angry with me.

In a word: divorce.

She'd be totally into it!

Online, okay. In person, serious problems.