One night many years ago my wife wanted to fuck outside on the patio. We both stripped off and i folled her bare ass out the backdoor. This was very sudden and unexpected. We hadnt even been talking about sex. She just announced it. Now out on the patio she sat down on a chaise lounge and spread her legs to each side. The surprise of it and being outside had me really hard. She told me to put it in her and i moved between her legs. The head of my cock went right to her and in. And as i slid in i began to cum. All i could manage was about 3 or 4 strokes during my orgasm. She said i cant believe you came! I sat up and slid out of her, and it suddenly became apparent to my foggy brain she was mad as hell! She jumped up and started yelling at me, my cum running down her thighs and my cock soft and spent. She stormed back into the house with me once again following that bare ass in. She threw herself onto the bed and began to masturbate herself with a vengance. She came pretty hard, probably making sure i saw what a good cum she had. The she put on a nightgown and told me to sleep on the couch. And yes, i jacked off several times that night on the couch!

From time to time on a weekend my wife will tease me all day, every now and then stroking my balls through my jeans or taking my cock out for a quick 30 second handjob. By the end of the day when she lets me fuck her she finds it funny that I only last a few stokes in her pussy. Of cource thats her plan :-)

I typically have the opposite problem. My wife will be ready to stop and I haven't cum yet. She will be totally not into sex and asking me "when are you going to cum?". Of course that makes it take longer because I feel pressured.

I typically end up fucking her a bit (or used to before we basically stopped fucking), then we stop and masturbate together. She gets off several times with her vibe and I will watch and edge until she's finished then I shoot.

My wife would be perfectly happy if I came fast. I'd probably get laid more often.

One of my all time favourite clips. I love how she's trying to hide her disappointment and then attempts riding him some more.

http://www.redtube.com/925593

What would you do with all that extra time . . . . wank?

Get it hard again and cum twice!

o Fetish

Oh, this is a major, major fetish for me! Big time thanx for posting the "One Minute Endurance Test" video.

- http://xhamster.com/movies/1952580/one_minute_endurance_test_4.html
- http://xhamster.com/movies/1952584/one_minute_endurance_test_5.html
- http://xhamster.com/movies/1952588/one_minute_endurance_test_6.html

There's nothing like a woman who makes a guy feel comfortable when he shoots jets of his batter into her. If a woman is that understanding, especially going to fast, she's a fucking keeper!

I also really like that last one for the 'slow motion creampie.' But more on that in another thread.

Thread: Slow Motion Creampies and other, str8 slomo sex
- http://jackinchat.com/viewthread.php?tID=65680


o 20 years in the making

Being 41yo myself, I had years of pumping my wife full of cum, her even sucking me back hard, and going back in again. Especially when we were trying for a baby, that 'trash talking' she did, just to get me to cum fast, was unreal. I'd cum fast, then she'd suck me hard again, and then I'd 'double pack' her pussy with another load.

So I love the idea of young guys, even virgins, getting to fuck a mature woman, and cumming fast. Especially guys who love thinner women, but then experience their first, curvy, busty gal. A gal they think they can 'last with,' but then suddenly 'lose it fast.' I've known a couple of guys like this in real life, and they did it on a dare.

So I've really developed this fetish for sloppy seconds, as I gave myself so many over the years with my own wife. If I trusted the stud, I'd so live for sloppy seconds. It'll never happen in real life, but I imagine a pornstar (who looks like my wife) as the 'target,' and love chatting about those fantasies.

Thread: Cum as lube
- http://jackinchat.com/viewthread.php?tID=65653

I just love watching, and even the idea of young guys losing it fast in a mature, curvy woman ... or even younger, but very 'experienced,' soft body, late 20s or 30'ish woman too. Then I'd 'take over' and have my 'sloppy seconds' after she's 'pre-lubed.' I'm also a big fan of the fetish of another stud 'painting my target' in a circle of women.


o Mature woman = complement

This is honestly why I think ...
- Mature women should be with young men, and ...
- Mature men should be with young women

I've found mature women appreciate a guy that 'cannot resist her' and cums fast once she gets him going. Even my wife is like this today, when I cum fast, she takes it as a complement. Younger women want stamina, and at the right age and fitness, a mature man came be absolutely perfect for her.

I was very smart when I dated, and worked over the women as much as I could before I got my pants off. That way when she finally get ahold of my cock, they were usually close. As long as they got off, they didn't care if I took long or not. Of course, I also 'cheated' too.

Because I had never been in a pussy before age 18.

I had a girlfriend mount me, and before I realized it, she got my cock in her. She thought I was just kidding when I was trying to push her off of me, then 30 seconds later, she realized. I had been with dozens of women, intimately, but never in a pussy. That first feeling of pussy, all down my full shaft, was unreal, and I couldn't handle it.

I actually shot so fast and so hard, it hurt, so it wasn't the best 'first time.' Luckily I didn't get her pregnant, but she dumped me a week later, largely over the incident.


As far as ...


That really sucks that she couldn't see it as you being unable to resist her body.

My wife and I fucked on the beach once, after midnight, and a couple of people watched from afar. Two couples along the beach, plus one guy from a balcony jacking off. My wife looked at the guy on the balcony, and encouraged him with her expressions, her F cups flying, as she rode me.

I unloaded inside her in not even 2 minutes, even though we had been married for over a dozen years, having filled her thousands and thousands of times. And yes, before you ask, she had a very low risk of pregnancy, I knew that going into the marriage, her sister being completely barren.

She kept riding until I finally fell out of her, even though she didn't get off. She dripped all over the beach, then we got back into our room (our patio was connected to it), and she sucked me back hard, to go again.

It took awhile, but when I got back in, I worked that clit with my hand and it was an intense orgasm for her. I followed again not long after.

It completely turned her on that I came inside her in 2 minutes.

It's funny, we used to take a long time to fuck in our 20s, and I'd go 45+ minutes regularly. But as we've aged, she wants it harder and faster, often harder and faster than I can give it. We use a lot of toys, even simulate DP and other things.

Which is part of where my fantasy comes from.


As far as ...


You're not the only one in this boat, especially 40+.

My wife had trouble taking me in our early marriage, and that limited my time in her at first. I wanted to fuck her 10x as much as vice-versa. Over time she opened up, and her sex drive increased, and we didn't equalize until our 30s, her more, me less.

Now we've utterly switched into our 40s. She gets off a half-dozen times a day. In my 20s I could go 2-3 times over 3-4 hours, and now I'm done if I go 2 times in 3 hours, at least done for a good half-day. The head helps, and she's a master, but it only goes so far, even with her being the best I've ever had. She remembers me in my 20s, fucking her DD-F cups without end, but that man is now gone. She finally came to terms with, realizing it's not her, just my age.

Now I've always had 'stamina,' and got really good at 'hold out,' then changing on a dime, when she got close. One way was so my girth and overhanging helmet would hit her G-spot only going half-way in, which kept me from getting too turned on. But like anything, over time, she was de-sensitized to it. And I myself de-sensitized too.

I mean, we're talking nearly 10,000 bouts of sex with ejaculations over 2 decades, from oral to vaginal. She still loves it, but nothing like before. So now I take even longer, even with head. And, again, once I go, I got maybe one more shot in me for the next few hours, and then it needs to rest.

Viagra has helped me go more. I made the mistake of taking a half-pill the first time, like my doc told me, but I'm so glad I didn't take a full pill! A quarter pill would have done, and does nicely today.

She finally couldn't take it as many times as I wanted to give it in those first 2 hours after that initial, half pill. Oh it was awesome to get her off 3 times in that first hour, without going. Yeah, Viagara actually helped me last longer, and I heard it really helps with control, not just hardness, too. No rush to 'keep it hard,' because it's gonna stay hard.

So after she was sore that first time, I ended up beating off just to soften in 4 hours. I was hard again a hour after that, and beating off every 2 hours for the next 2 days. Oh fuck I watched so much porn, with her full approval, and she even joined just to watch me get off a few times.

I know that first time is the best, it never comes that good again, and a quarter pill is good for 12+ hours of action 3-4 times, but it gets expensive over time too.

But I still don't think I'll ever nut fast like in my youth ever again. My wife loves it when I go faster, takes it as a complement. I remember some of the 30 and 40 year-olds I dated in my late teens loved me getting off fast, which is why I'm glad I didn't take my pants off until they were well worked up and close themselves.

I think it's really at least 10 minutes for me, minimum, even if I work myself up first, today. But talk to your doc, he might have something. My wife and I don't use Viagra ... except on trips when she wants lots and lots of sex for a half-day.

Here's an example set of 'captions' I used, using pornstar Arianna Sinn to represent my thick, juicy, cock hungry wife.

http://m.xhamster.com/movies/1079866/premature_ejaculation.htmlhttp://m.xhamster.com/movies/1079866/premature_ejaculation.html

This is a good one

Very fast prem ejaculator here..

Dont know what you mean....THE MUSIC IS AWESOME...
fits that clip perfect...LOVE that!!!!!!

For quite a while now i have been pretty quick, around 2 minutes. Yes my current wife has timed it. By the time i enter her i am so turned on by the foreplay, nothing seems to hold it off. We have learned to go with it, more oral and hand play. She usually cums once on my mouth before we fuck, i get in her and cum, then she brings herself off by hand again after i withdraw.

Pretty sure I'd last the same length of time with her. Quite often with my gf after she's spent a while sucking my cock by the time I enter her pussy I'm ready to cum within seconds

sounds almost like my wife and I except...she wont finish herself off so I usually try to give her 2-3 orgasms before I enter her...