There's alot of things I don't understand such as involving feet, urine or excrement in sex.
But I tolerate it and let these people get on with it - they are human beings too after all and it would be out of order for me to preach about their common sense or how sad it is.
If it would help others who do not get it, my take on it is this:
When a male has made such an effort to look stunningly beautiful, often so much so that until you see what's between their legs you wouldn't know them from a female, those who like it 'buy in' to the whole thing, effectively forming a culture. It's simply admiration and also disassociating from being gay. If we say 'he' and 'him' and so forth that's simply homosexual. We see them as beautiful girls that have 'something extra' and even refer to it as 'clit' or 'clitty' rather than cock, and the ass as her 'pussy'.
If ever you see someone like Bailey Jay doing her thing on video, it becomes clearer. She looks like a gorgeously beautiful girl. She acts like a girl. In fact, for me she is more sensual than any naturally born female I have ever seen and it is simply impossible not to refer to her as female while watching her.
I hope that goes some way to explaining the feelings of shemale / sissy admirers. It's just another kink and there are many out there that may baffle, shock and disgust us, but we're all just horny guys with different tastes at the end of the day, and we're all in this together so when we question each other about it, how about we make this site a nicer place by not putting each other down at the same time.

It's like Ted said "There are no chicks with dicks Johnny, only dudes with tits!"

Him...her...either way, guys can be damn hot women today..

Gigi Gorgeous...

Mia..

Mia is a super hot girl. what a supermodel body she got.

NO

~Not sure I'd fuck her but I would certainly luv to play with her cock, wank her off and make her spunk up over her tits. She'd then spunk me off mmmmmm

It's amazing how good they look.

Absolutely, they look so hot

One of them is Gigi Gorgeous, I'm not sure about the other one, but I guess she's Andrej Pejic

Yeah Gigi is posted above. Very hot.

As respects @Lovetoyank247 and @UKeastdom, I think that part of what people find appealing is how divorced the prospect Is from their real lives: In large measure, it's hot bcause it's outsider. Guys who answer yes dont anticipate a knock at the door followed by Mia in her highest heels. The noun in "extreme fantasy" remains "fantasy".