Any other virgin guys here that have zero confidence with girls and just prefer to stay in and have fun with a pillow or something similar? Also I've never had a girlfriend or been on a actual date. You can message me on Skype or Yahoo if you want to chat about it - shylonerguy

Also you can look at my profile here if you want.

Sorry to hear your tale. It's a shame it's holding you back. I'm very shy myself, also have a small cock but that hasn't stopped me enjoying women. Been married twice, engaged to another. I can identify though. At school, nothing. I was a virgin until I was 21. Also I love masturbating and love Taylor Swift!

Anyone at all?

Anyone else at all?

Is there anyone here who can relate?

I am the same way. In High School I would always blush and get super nervous around the pretty girls. I jerk off a LOT! Like you, my pillow has also been abused

Thanks for replying. It's nice to know that there are others out there who can relate.

Come on guys, just ask a girl to go out, it's not so difficult. Maybe some will say no, and some dates will not be the super experience, but most of the dates would be great.

Get more confidence, girls like that on guys. Masturbation is great but the real thing is great either.

Even you can pay for a "girlfriend experience" a couple of times. After you start you'll see it's not big deal.

I lost my virginity fairly young and had a GF most of my teen years. Got married at 24. I've had a lot of fun sexually, but the drama is probably not worth it.

First thing I'll tell you, and some with disagree, is that the first time you slide your dick in a pussy you will be totally unimpressed. When I lost my virginity I was thinking "This is what all the fuss is about?".

I've honed my masturbating skills to the point that nothing else can get me off as good as my hand.

Girls are awesome and I love them. I love sex with them, but it's more about getting them off than it is getting off myself. But there is no reason to do something you are uncomfortable with unless you really want to.

I used to be a shy quiet guy that was afraid to approach girls, but one day i just decided, what the hell, the worst they can do is tell me no, right? Right. And some did, but some didn't. And after the first one said yes, it became a little easier. Eventually I was asking every girl out. At one time I had three different girlfriends, which was a blast until they found out about each other. Even then I only lost one of them, and the other two didn't mind sharing. Fun for me!!! The thing is, you just gave to bring yourself around go doing it. My son went to his first high school dance in the 7th grade and came home sad because nobody would dance with him. I told him, just get out there and dance with yourself. That is what he did the next time and he came home excited as hell because everybody got up and danced with him. He now goes to a little place around here and everybody loves to just sit and watch him dance, be it with somebody else or just him by himself, line dancing. He is now teaching his own daughter how to line dance and at 2, she dances better than I do at 52. Dont always put yourself down. There is a saying, no one will love you until you learn how to love yourself. Love yourself! Then go out there and ask someone to dance!!

I've only dated and kissed a girl just once in
my entire life time...
I was 15, she was 17. We both went to church together.
Even then I knew I was gay but I had never explored
that side of me during my teen years.

As for dating the girl, SHE had such a mad crush on me
that SHE made the first move: in a love letter given
to me by her sister (who was also around my age)...

I had often visited her after school, her mom was
very nice and she always made a nice dinner for us
whenever I visited. We didn't really go out anywhere
special except for walks through the neighborhood.
Whenever it was time for me to go she and I would
sneak a french kiss at her door whenever her mom
wasn't looking.

To make a long story short, almost a year later she
started hinting me about "Marriage". Wow, just wow.
I was like "W T F?!"... it shocked me, we were still
in High School and she was hinting about Marriage.
Aw HELL NO, I was Not gonna fall into that fate!
I dropped her like a zero, and I had later stopped
going to church anymore. Done. No girls for me.
I broke out of my so-called "hetero" life, like the
fastest bat outta hell.

Years later I then found out she ran off with a guy,
dropped out of school, and became pregnant by him;
then he somehow landed in jail for some stupid shit.
I felt bad for her. But on the bright side, I'm so
grateful that I never had gotten sexually involved
with her or any other girl... only to become some
miserable lowlife dead-beat-dad paying the price
for the rest of my life? NO. End of story.

I'm also not ashamed to say,
I may never have had any sexual intercourse with females;
but I've met a lot of Assholes and Pussies in my lifetime. lol

As for you young adult straight guys who may be
feeling Girl-shy... you need to be confident in yourself.
You are a Fisherman. There are plenty of fish in the sea.
Sometimes you have to kiss a lot of fish before you
find your beautiful Mermaid. She's out there. Find her.

You can't expect the fish to swim to you, you must
go out there and Fish...
Catch one. If it schtinks, toss it back into the water.
If it's Sweet, prepare to Eat. Then cherish her for
the nutritional value, for She will be the woman who
may keep you, and your soon-to-be little guppies,
alive and well-fed forever.

Wanabiggerone has good insight on females. He missed the part called "the fucking youll get for the fucking you got" when it comes trade in time.

Very true! Nothing in life is free. If you're getting some pussy, you're giving up something to get it.