My wife knows i JO because she caught me many times. She was pissed each time and stormed out of the room saying i didn't need her to cum. I wished she stayed and encouraged me or offered a helping hand. She thinks I JO about once a week but it is more like 2/3 times. What is your story?

There was a time when she would get pissed that I was jerking off - especially to porn. Nowadays she doesn't give a shit and I'm free to jerk off all I want.

wife loves to watch me jo and will usually end up getting off her self in the process. to the point we will sit and watch each other JO and get off on it.

Wife knows and doesnt care. Shes hot but I'd rather j/o and she would rather me j/o so its all good!

I told my wife when we first married that I masturbate. And how much I was masturbating when we met. She told me she did not have a problem with that. She knew guys masturbate and she did too. I masturbated all through our marriage and she always got sex from me when she wanted. I stopped masturbating in private and only did it with her for the last few years before she passed away.

My wife and I are pretty open about it. She always tells me if she's been masturbating and I usually do the same. We also like to watch each other masturbate. She loves to watch me stroke my cock and cum, often on her tits...

I told my wife before we got married that I looked at porn. She was hurt that I would look at other women and jack off to them. I just was honest with her and said "I like looking at naked women." She accepted it as "guys being guys" and as long as I didn't cheat on her for real. I actually think it kind of sparked something in her because she's since asked me questions playfully like "what do you say while you're looking at those girls and stroking yourself?" And we've watched porn together and she likes it but it's more my thing than hers.

My ex-wife knew I loved to jack off and that I loved porn. She was fine with it and loved to watch me and I got her into masturbating. She was brought up that it was wrong and got caught once with a friend of hers masturbating together when they were younger and said she hadn't done it since then. But I got her out of that pretty quick and we enjoyed masturbating together often, or one watching the other or masturbating each other.
As a kid and into my teen years I was kind of shy about admitting to it to anyone, but a few of my friends talked about it and a couple of my female friends knew I did it. Some girls I dated in my teen years got it out of me that I liked to do it, usually after they asked me if I did it and confessed to me first that they did it and then prodded it out of me by saying "Come on, you know you do it, All boys and most girls do it!" Or by telling me they thought it was hot. So Some girlfriends I never had sex with knew while some I did have sex with didn't know, but generally, if I was having sex with them they knew.
Later on I just didn't care and was completely open about it and every girl I dated knew I liked to jack off.
One girlfriend, before I got married, absolutely hated that I did it at all and hated that I looked at other girls in porn or in person, much less in front of her.
One other girlfriend after my divorce was not too keen on it at first, although not as bad as the other one who didn't like it and she lightened up a little over time and even masturbated with me a few times.
Because of those two, I now will have discussions with any girl I am dating either when it's looking like we're are getting serious or before we start having sex about masturbating, porn or anything else that may possibly be an issue then or later so there are no secrets or surprises.
I really don't want to be in another relationship with someone who has any hangups about masturbation, porn, or other things that are a part of who I am and that I am not giving up. I don't need the stress of them trying to make me feel guilty for something that is perfectly natural and brings enjoyment. I am not going to live feeling like I have to hide it from the one person I share everything else with.
Fortunately, overall though, most girls I have dated are not only fine with it, but turned on by it and will also do it with me.
I also have many female friends, who I don't have sex with, but we talk openly about our sex lives, masturbation, etc. and also have a few female masturbation buddies, again that I don't have sex with, but we get together and masturbate, some I have phone sex or do webcam with. It's a very nice thing when you're in between relationships, not wanting a relationship or not really wanting to do the fuck buddy thing.

. Since on vacation I don't have much privacy so I don't get to JO as much as I would like. So since my wife is with me most of the time, she thinks I haven't JO since we have been on vacation and she has been giving me BJs and HJs about 3 times a week, she naturally thinks I haven't been JO. The fact is I have been able to get in about 5/6 sessions the past 2 months.

My wife encourages masturbation. We both do it. Alone and together. She is well aware that I jerk off a lot without her. She even knows my favorite celebs and will watch me use their pics and vids sometimes. She thinks it's silly when girls get mad about such things. It's better than cheating I guess. We love to cum and we all have fantasies.

Your wife sounds great! Pretty soon after I started going out with my last girlfriend, the topic of porn came up and I just straight up said, "Yep. I watch it. Any guy says he doesn't is a liar." I foolishly thought that would be the end of it, but she got quite upset by that. Not only had I shattered her image of me, but I'd shattered her impressions of her 2 or 3 ex boyfriends as well (who were obviously lying shits who said they never watched porn). She basically equated watching porn to cheating, with the "another girl is making you cum" bullshit. So, after that I basically told her I'd given up porn for good and any time I wanked I was definitely, 100% always looking at pictures of her and thinking of her. Ridiculous, but an easy lie to maintain I suppose.

My wife knows. She does not like to see it, but I hang out naked in the house very often now. Our kids are all grown and out on their own. Just me and the wife. COVID actually changed things - we were locked down and I had been masturbating on the down low for our entire marriage. I just could not get alone time to jo. One night my wife was busy on a home improvement project. I was helping out, then went up took a shower and came back down stairs naked and boned up. I helped on the project a bit then sat on the couch. I started sneaking boner play when she was not looking. Before I knew it I was full on jacking off and she was in the room. She finally noticed after a half an hour. I alternated helping paint and jacking off for the next couple hours. The improvement project took almost two weeks. I made a habit of working on it while naked and boned up. I took many jo breaks. She finally said enough is enough and I had to put it away for a while.
We have good sex regularly. But I just need more.
Now I get horny naked boner days a few times a month.

Funny to see this thread today after a conversation with the wife yesterday. My wife asked me the night before if I wanted to do it again I said yes. We had the house to ourselves and I planned on a great night. Figured we would have a drink or two smoke some weed and have a good night.

Well she has been in some pain for awhile due to a pinched nerve in her neck so she hasnt really been up for much. She just lays in bed in pain, she decided to smoke to help ease the pain I said I wish I could smoke, she says youre no good to me when you smoke your to sensitive and cum to quick. I told her that should be a compliment that she turns me on that much i cant hold back. I asked her if she would rather me take forever to cum then you would think you no longer do it for me? She got the point and said no im glad I turn you on that much.

So as we laid in bed I was giving her a foot rub and she felt my hard dick with her foot as she seems to always do a foot check to see if Im hard. Well she fell asleep before anything could happen.
The next morning I wake up before her have my coffee, porn, smoke some and go back to bed after I get all horned up. I asked her if she wanted to do it? As I laid there and just rubbed her. As Im leaking in my shorts shes showing no interest in sex. We ended up getting up I went to get ready and apparently spent more time in the bathroom than she thought I needed. I moved my fleshlight into a different position to see if she pays attention. She asked if I whacked off in there? I couldnt keep a straight face. She said you did didnt you? I just tried to ignore her as she questioned me. I never said yes and never said no. She asked if I would be able to go again and grabbed my cock through my shorts. She felt I was hard and said ok maybe you didnt cum. She just proceeded to tease me about it. She said I cant believe you jack off when im right in the other room. I said im sure you take care of yourself more than you tell me. She said I dont do it often but never when youre home and in the next room. Needless to say we still havent done it.

I love having premature ejaculations with her, although I can control when I cum but she doesnt know it. She makes fun of me and teased me about it, which I like. I think I like it because its the only attention she gives me.